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Some Smart and Coolest Ways To Say No To Any Arranged Marriage Proposal

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In our society, most of the arranged marriage meetings are driven by parents and relatives and as prospective bride and groom you hardly play any important role in the first meeting and even in the decision making. Your parents and the Jodi maker aunties and uncles ensure that all the things are lined up well and they get a yes from both the parties. In most of the cases, the boy and girl feel awkward and like a puppet in the first marriage meeting. There are numerous incidents where you have heard that how the marriage proposal or meeting turned surreal either for the boy or girl. To avoid such situation, it is best to say no to marriage proposal and save your soul. It is very natural that if you receive any marriage proposal you will not say yes to all the marriage proposals, you will surely say no to some with some or the other reasons. However, there are people who give weird reasons to reject a marriage proposal and annoy all, but to make the situation comfortable for all, say no to unwanted marriage proposal smartly.

I am not ready: Most of the marriage proposals in arranged marriage came from distant relatives, family friends and close friends. Generally, people find it difficult to handle. Girls are generally pressurized to meet the prospective groom and his family and even to accept the marriage proposal. If you too find such situation complicated and tensed, it is better to tackle it diplomatically and say No to proposal smartly. When you are meeting a girl/boy for arranged marriage, you can use these responses:

“I am flattered with your personality and positive attitude. But I am not yet ready for this big thing.”

“I need some more time to prepare myself for this big decision. I hope you will find a suitable match soon.”

I don’t find you compatible: If you don’t find the prospective life partner matching your expectations, then you should reject the proposal smartly. It is better to be more diplomatic in your approach to avoid any unwanted situation. During your conversation with the boy/girl tell about your partner preferences and expectations upfront. Tell her/him that, you do not find him/her meeting your partner preferences and you don’t find him/her compatible. Don’t hesitate to tell that compatibility with your partner is very important and it will be difficult to make a new beginning if you don’t find a compatible partner.

Saying no to online proposal: Nowadays, people register themselves with matrimonial sites, even parents create profile for their son/daughter with these matrimonial sites to find a suitable life partner, as they find it more easy and simple to find a life partner with the help of these matrimonial sites. However, on these matrimonial sites you are not supposed to please anyone, therefore you can any time reject or accept any matrimonial interest. But, if you find any proposal unsuitable and you want to reject it, then you can simple decline the interest by clicking on the available button. You can also write a short note stating, “Thanks for your interest, I reviewed your profile and find your profile not meeting my partner preference. Once again thanks for your interest and best of luck for you search.”

I want to settle down professionally: Rejection hurts and you feel sad and depressed when somebody rejects you. You feel more bad when you know that you still have a chance to meet that person and take this marriage proposal to next level. If you don’t want to give stupid reasons and make your rejection statement more convincing, you can mention that you first want to settle down professionally and then only you want to tie the wedding knot. This way you will not make any depressing and weird statement to reject someone and sound more responsible and intelligent.

Saying No after first meeting: Saying no after first meeting becomes more complicated because you don’t want to hurt anyone. Therefore, saying no after first meeting should be done with elegance, considering the other person’s emotions and expectations. Always ensure that you are conveying your message politely and diplomatically. Don’t rely upon the mediator to communicate your message, if you don’t find the other person compatible, then convey the message to your parents or to him/her directly stating that you are not the kind of person you are looking for as life partner, rather than creating confusion for the other person and his/her family.

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Want To Go For A Flower Wedding? Plan Well

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You can’t imagine a single wedding venue without flower decoration. Do you want to go for some special flower decoration or want to make to flower wedding? A flower wedding is something where you can see flowers everywhere and flower decoration dominates everything in the wedding venue. You can go for a theme flower decoration or you can go for special segmented flower decoration. The right kind of decoration and perfect choice of flowers can create magic on your wedding day. Let’s take a look at how to plan a magical flower decoration for your wedding day.

Talk to different flower decorators: While planning your flower wedding, don’t finalize the one whom you meet first. It is always good to talk to at least four to five different flower decorators and understand their style of working and decorations.

First look at their work: Before saying yes or no to anyone, it is always good to see their work first. There are many decorators who have their websites, they display their decoration images on their websites. Besides, most of the decorators have their album as well. So, go and check their work before making your mind.

Ask for different theme: These flower decorators create different themes and designs for wedding venue as they are expert in that. If you have any ideas you can share your ideas with them and they can show the sample decoration. They create different themes on different concepts mixing their designs with different items and props. So, look at different options and choose the best.

Decide a budget: It is always better to decide a budget to arrange everything within your pocket. You can ask decide a budget and then talk to different decorators to provide you the best services within your pocket. These people are really experts in their work and they offer the best services within the budget.

Compare and negotiate the price: Comparison of price is always good to save some money. If you want to save some more money always compare the quotes of different vendors not only the price, but the kind of services they are offering.  Always negotiate with the vendor to get some more discounts on the quoted prices.

Less is not always enough: Most of the time we believe that less is always more, but when it comes to decoration and flowers more always appear less. So, think before finalizing your decoration theme, how many flowers you require and what will be the theme.

Consider the flower colors: Flowers are available in different colors and sizes. It is good if you decide a color theme or you want mix bunches of flowers or you want some internal flowers on specific areas like stage, mandap or some other sections of the wedding venue. You want single color theme or multicolor theme. Decide your color theme first before you finalize your decoration.

Consider the season: Always consider the seasonality. It is a big thing when you go for a flower decoration for your wedding venue. There are some flowers which come only in specific season or months and there are some flowers which are available throughout the year. So, if you are asking for some off season flowers, so it will increase the cost of decoration.

Some Must Follow Marriage Tips For Newlyweds

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Marriage is one of the most beautiful relationships and can be bliss if nurtured well. The one thing that connects you with your soul-mate is your understanding and love with your partner. But, if your relationship is not that great and you failed to manage it well, then you land into a foul soup. Everything in that relationship appears complicated and troublesome. It increases fight and tensions among the young couples. As a newlywed you need to pay more attention and time to this relationship. Here, we are sharing some tips for newlyweds to make your married life happier.

Don’t involve your family all the time: It is good to take advice from your elders and take their help and suggestion if it is really required. But, it is not at all suggested to involve your parents or in-laws in every big and small matter. Take your stand and make your own decisions. It is good if you avoid involving your parents and other family members in your personal matters.

Don’t go to bed in bad mood: Arguments, small clashes and difference of opinions are common in very relationship and even in happiest marriage as well. Your partner can’t all the time accept and agree upon your thoughts and idea. Learn to accept the difference of opinions in a lighter note rather than reacting on it immediately or just holding them for some time. All couples must settle down their differences or any kind of conflicts before they go to bed. It is important to stay happy and feel stress free.

Keep it simple and wait for some time: There are many couples who just jump into a new role just after marriage. There are lot things you are expected to cope-up with after marriage like settling down in new family, understanding issues with family and your spouse, job changes and maintaining a balance between your office and home. Therefore, it is advisable to avoid planning a family just after your marriage. It is good to wait for at least six months or more or until you feel that that you are well settled in new family and comfortable to take this new responsibility.

Track your money: One thing over which most of the couples fight frequently after marriage is money. As a married couple, you must be surprised to note that your money just flies away and it is really difficult to track it. But, make a habit of noting down each and every expense, making a monthly budget and sticking to it religiously. Track your money and try to save money for your future. Avoid asking money from parents and in-laws. It can trigger clashes and arguments between you.

Don’t quit your job: After marriage, you will find that your overall monthly expenses increases and to combat that it is important that you have sufficient money flow. If both of you are working, you will find it easier to save money and invest your money to gain combined financial success. It will also help you to keep yourself busy and tuned with your routine.

Follow your dreams: It is important to have dreams and chase them. It is good for individuals and for couples as well. It gives you a platform where you both started thinking similarly. Your dream could be anything like taking a new job, starting a new business, buying your own house or something else. It is important to share your idea with your spouse, take his/her views and suggestions. It will strengthen your bond and build your understanding as couple.

Work as team not individuals: A happy marriage is all about working as a team not as two individuals. Take care of each-others requirements and needs. Try to do household chores together or divide your responsibilities to ease your burden. It will build your bonding and you work as team to meet your daily requirements. It will give you the feeling of a happy couple and will improve your relationship with your spouse.

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6 Special Wedding Day Advices for Groom

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Feeling butterflies in stomach? Feeling nervous when you think about the wedding day? Don’t know what to do what not to do on your wedding day? Clueless about the things that you should consider/avoid on your wedding day?  Your wedding day is the most important day of your life and you will listen a lot of advices from your parents, family members and friends as well. You friends and family members must have given you a good number of tips to ensure that you will stay happily after marriage. You must be hearing many advices like ‘avoid arguments and unnecessary rifts whenever possible’. Or advices like ‘don’t shout on your partner’, etc. But, what would you do for your wedding day, ‘The Big Day’. Nobody suggests you for this special day as most of the friends and family members are busy in telling you a thousand of things about happy married life, but not for your wedding day. We are here sharing some important advice for the groom to help them to be the best on their special day.

Set your alarm: This is really important that you set your alarm for the wedding day to wake up on time. It will help in not to get late for other rituals and leaving for your wedding venue. If you will set an alarm for your wedding day for early morning that ensure that you will not oversleep. It will further give you enough time to complete other stuff on time with important ceremonies.

Get your shave cleaned: It does not matter how much you love your shave or how trendy or cool you look in your shave, get it CLEANED. It is really important that you get your shave cleaned on the same day that your face will shine and you look fresh. Nowadays, there are many males, who don’t like to get their shave cleaned, but on your wedding day you should look good and clean at the same time. It is not for bride only to look beautiful and stunning on your wedding day. Rather, it is equally important for groom as well to look handsome and smart on their wedding day.

Eat well in the morning: Ensure that you are filling your stomach well before you leave your home. It is very important that you have a good breakfast in the morning. It might be that you will not get the opportunity to have something during the whole day. Therefore, it becomes important you have something really filling and healthy. Even if you don’t eat breakfast usually, still on this day eat something good to get going. It might that you will not be able to have anything during the whole day because of too many ceremonies, rituals or travelling. If you will stay empty stomach, it might be you will feel unpleasant and uneasy. You will never want that your stomach will give you trouble during ceremonies.

Dress your best: This is just about wearing the perfect wedding suit or sherwani on your marriage day. You should be wearing the best of everything from your socks to your under garments. Your bride must be wearing her best of everything, so you might want to consider the same.

Don’t forget to carry to ring/mangalsutra: In Indian marriage, it is very important that you should carry your wedding ring/mangalsutra with you. Before you leave home for the wedding ceremony, you should always check whether you are carrying all required things with you. You never want to be in a situation where you ceremonies got delayed because you forgot to carry your wedding ring or mangalsutra.

Reach on time: In almost all Indian wedding one thing, which is very important is wedding time or time for Feras (wedding circles). Most of the people want to start their wedding ceremonies on time or as scheduled by the Pandit/Pojari. Therefore, try to leave on time from home and reach there on time, so all your ceremonies will start on time and you will not miss any auspicious muhurat for your wedding.

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Want To Look Stunning On Your Wedding Day? Follow Some Simple Steps

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Wedding day is the most special day in a women’s life.  You want to look stunning and gorgeous on your wedding day. You will surely choose the best wedding saree or lehenga, best make-up artist and best of everything for your wedding day. If your wedding is round the corner, it means that you should pull up your socks and start focusing on your looks and body as well. If you are getting married in winters, then you should take good care of your skin and hairs to look beautiful. All the girls want to look beautiful on their wedding day, not just beautiful, but flawless, special, confident and radiant. You should always keep this in mind that all the eyes of the guests will be on the bride on this special day. Your effortless beauty will be captured by the photographer that will last till lifetime. To help you to ease your go gorgeous journey, here are some simple tips and tricks to look stunning on your wedding day.

Switch to healthy diet: If you are eating too much of fast food or junk food, therefore, it becomes really important for you to make changes in your diet. Make healthy changes in your diet and eat as much as healthy as you can. Try to include fruits, salads and a lot of vegetables in your daily diet. Eat fresh food, fruits and vegetables every day. Minimize the consumption of meat, dairy products and frozen food to stay energetic and look stunning on your wedding day.

Drink more water and fresh juices: Drink more and more water to stay fresh and not to get dehydrated on your wedding day. Our body requires a lot of water, to maintain the healthy balance between your diet and drinking habit, it is important that you drink a lot of water every day. Try to include fresh fruit of orange, pineapple, guava or grapes in your daily routine. Try to have at least a glass of fresh fruit juice every day. Don’t go for canned juices, as added sugar and preservatives will do more harm than health benefits. If you love carrot and beetroot juice, you can also try that as well. If you are not able to get fresh juice, so you can have such fruits, those have high water contents like cucumber, watermelon, muskmelon, oranges, tomato and other water based fruits and vegetables.

Exercise to stay in shape and healthy: When you follow the healthy routine of exercising regularly, it helps in flushing toxins out of your body. You also improve your circulation, bringing more blood to the surface of the skin. It will give you a healthy glowing skin and it will also keep your skin healthier in long-term. Get involved in any of the physical activities such as jogging, running, cycling, hiking and yoga, etc. You will get glowing skin as well as you will reduce your anxiety and boost your blood circulation and mood as well.

Exfoliate your body: Gently exfoliate your face and body with a washcloth or mixture of ground oatmeal and water or olive oil/almond oil/any other your favorite message oil/body oil. This process will remove the top layer of the dead, dull skin that’s hiding the beautiful glowing skin underneath. It will help in boosting the blood circulation and gives you a rosy glow too. It your wedding dress will show more skin, in that case, you can also use the same mixture on your arms, legs and other parts of the body. You surely want your whole skin to glow, not just that your face.

Make changes in your skin care: If you are not happy and satisfied with your current skin care routine results, go for a skincare makeover.  Make changes in your skin care products, but ensure that you are doing it much in advance. If the new product doesn’t suit your skin, at least you will have enough time to take corrective measures. Coconut oil and almond oil are the fantastic skin moisturizers, if you are not happy with your body moisturizer, try these oils. For your face, apply some petroleum based ingredients and oils.

Improve your digestion: To get that flawless skin, you need to work upon your digestion. It is very important that you take right kind of diet and fruits that help in boosting your digestion. Eat green leafy vegetables, fruits like mango, pineapple, orange, pomegranate, guava and grapes in your fruit list to improve digestion. These fruits will help in improving your digestion and minimize the chances of skin problem like pimples, pigmentation and acne.

Buy good beauty products: What you put into your body and how much you move around are both important will result in beautiful, glowing skin, but on special occasions-like your wedding day-you really want to look gorgeous. Go for good beauty products from good brands. Go for such skin products which are good and go well with your skin.

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