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Five Magical Statements to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Spouse

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Every couple is different and the formula of their happiness and success of their marriage is different from other. Similarly, the love language is different for different couples. You can’t rate all couples at one level. When you are in this relationship, you always want to feel blessed and happy. You always want to enjoy the blissful marriage and at the same time you want to feel loved. There is nothing better than the feeling that there is someone who is always there for you. You always feel special and want to make your spouse to feel special because the love and bond you share with him/her. Here, we are sharing five magical statements to strengthen your relationship with spouse.

I love you for what you are: This is very soothing and satisfying statement when you listen this from your spouse. You always feel happy to listen to this that your spouse accepts you and love you for whatever you are. He/she does not want to make any changes in you or in your habits, but they are happy with you and accept you with your positive and negative sides. This makes your relationship stronger and better. You enjoy your relationship with your spouse more than anything else.

I trust you: This is another statement which gives you and your relationship a new strength. Trust is one of the most important factors of one’s life and you can’t imagine a relationship without trust. The core element behind the successful marriage is trust. When you listen to this statement “I trust you” it means a lot to you as couple because you know that in all ups and downs of life your spouse will be with you and trust you.

You are my world: When you listen to these golden words you feel special and loved. When your spouse said this to you that you are my world, it gives a new life to your relationship. All of us want to feel the warmth of love and care in our life. We don’t want to feel ignored and neglected, but when we heard this for your spouse you are everything, then it means a lot to you.

I can’t imagine a day without you: No matter how bad you are feeling because of any silly reason, but when you listen to this, you feel special and blessed with true love from your spouse. When your spouse says these golden words to that he/she can’t imagine a day without him/her, it gives you sense of belongingness and togetherness. Therefore, this special statement gives you a sense of love and pride. It gives you a sense that you hold a special place in his/her life and it will be difficult for him/her without you.

I am happy when I am with you: Happiness is one of the important factors behind the success of any relationship. If you are happy in your relationship, then nothing will bother you and you will not feel sad or regret for anything. The relationship of a husband and wife is very crucial and you can’t imagine the longevity of this relationship in the absence of happiness. If you are not happy in this special bond, then it will appear a burden to you. Therefore, this kind of statements gives you a sense of security and assurance that you are on the right track and your relationship will become stronger and stronger over the period of time.

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Secrets of Happy Marriage Revealed!

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“Happily ever after” can be achieved in real life too, it is not meant as a tag in movies only. It is not a fairy tale or something that can’t be achieved. It is something that can be easily achieved and enjoyed if you make small efforts to make your married life happily ever after. You can enjoy this status by investing a little time and making big and small efforts. If you too think that it is not easy to get this status of “Happily ever after”, we are here reveling some secrets of happy marriage to make your journey simple and blissful.

Don’t compromise happiness: This is one of the golden rules of happy marriage. You should not forget one thing that matter in a relationship is happiness. You can survive in the absence of a few materialistic things, but you can’t survive in the absence of happiness. Don’t compromise your happiness with anything in your married life. So, work on things which make you happy as couple to enjoy the blissful married life.

Be thankful: This is very necessary to be thankful to your spouse. Always be thankful to the things and efforts your spouse is making to make your day-to-day life simple and comforting be it the smallest thing of keeping your wardrobe organized or making food. Be thankful to your spouse and make your partner feel special that you always recognize his/her efforts.

Keep your expectations high: You must have heard a lot about the reverse statement that to enjoy a blissful marriage you should not have too high expectations or you should not expect something extraordinary from your marriage or partner. But, this is not really convincing. Always keep your expectations high from your spouse and relationship as well. This will work as motivator and encourage you to work as a team and increase your understanding as couple. You will work as team to meet your expectations.

Trust your partner: To enjoy a happy marriage trust is one of the most important aspects. Your marriage can’t survive in the absence of trust. Trust factor is very important for marriage. You should work on building trust in your partner. Doubting your partner at times is very common phenomena in marriage, but not trusting your partner is dangerous for the future of your marriage. Always build your relationship strong with a great level of trust.

Don’t hesitate to show your love physically: You should not hesitate to show your love physically to your spouse. Physical chemistry and attachment are binding factors in marriage. You should not hesitate to express and your love to your partner. Embrace him/her with hug, or kiss or something else which you think will connect you with your partner. Moreover, you should build your own physical signs to express your love to your spouse.

Have financial transparency: Financial transparency is another important aspect in building healthy, happy and strong relationship with your spouse. Be transparent in your financial matters. You should be clear and transparent about your financial status, savings and financial liabilities. If you don’t discuss and share the exact financial status with your spouse, then there are chances that you will face issues in future because of wrong financial expectations from your partner.

Enjoy surprises: Surprise is something that gives new life to your married life. To enjoy the spark of love in your married life don’t forget to give sweet surprises to your partner. All of us love surprises and you can’t deny the importance of surprise as it helps in bringing you closer and cherishing some happy memories.

Plan a date: Planning a surprise date can give the much desired boost to your love life in marriage. It will not only make you break the ice of monotony, besides help in strengthening your relationship. Dating is not only meant for youngsters or unmarried couples, but it is equally important for married people as well. You should always plan a date whenever you get time or whenever you want to add zing of love to daily routine life.

Compliment your spouse: Do you think that compliment is always welcomed by females only? But, this is not true, compliment is welcomed by males as well. If you think that your husband is looking great in a particular shirt, then don’t forget to mention this. This is applied on males as well. If your lady love is looking gorgeous, then don’t forget to mention that to her that she is looking great.

Behave like a team: You are like a team, while maintaining your individuality don’t forget that you are a team. You are a team and should always be in sync. In every good and not so good situation you should always behave like a team. You are working towards the same objectives and you are a team.

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7 Bollywood Couples Who Followed Their Heart and Did Inter-Caste Marriage

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In India, when it comes to marriage we always want to go with the traditional way of searching a life partner and ringing the wedding bell. But, there are celebrities who decided to break the barriers and go off beat and followed their heart. There are many Bollywood couples who decided to follow their heart and marry with the one they wanted to. Inter-caste marriage is not easily accepted by our society easily and the journey of these superstars were not that easy. It is not just the reel life where these celebs have set an example for rest of the world, but in real life too they have set an example by choosing a life partner from other religion. Here, we are sharing list of seven Bollywood stars who followed their heart and marry the love of their life.

Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao: Bollywood’s leading and top-rated actor Aamir Khan fell in love with Kiran Rao, a Brahmin girl from Bangalore. They got married in year 2005. They have set an example in front of everyone by marrying despite different religion. The two were an inspiration for rest of the people and for a lot of couples. They are a perfect example of inter-caste marriage.

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Shah Rukh Khan and Gauri Chibber: He is known as King Khan in the Bollywood. His movies are iconic and he is idol of many aspiring struggling actors. He is better known as king of romance in Indian movies and he is equally romantic in his real life too. He fell in love with Gauri Chibber, who is from Hindu Brahmin family. Apart from the strong resistance and disagreement for their relationship, they still followed their dreams. The disagreement of family and society did not stop them to tie the wedding knot. They got married in 1991 and have been one of the best example for rest of the people.

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Saif Ali Khan and Kareena Kapoor: This was one of the most talked about marriage of B-town. While there were many people who expected that the actress will change her religion after marriage, but nothing happened as expected. She decided to follow her own religion and remained Hindu. They are a perfect example for all those who don’t believe in age or religion barrier, but followed their heart and marry their love.

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Ritesh Deshmukh and Genelia D’suoza: They look super cute together in reel and real life too. They are another good example of inter-religion marriage in Bollywood. They tied the know in 2012. Genelia is a Mangalorean Catholic and Ritesh is a Maharashtrian Hindu. They performed the wedding in both Maharashtrian and Christian style. It is a perfect example of respecting both the religions and individual beliefs.

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Sanjay Dutt and Dilnawaz Sheikh (Maanyata): Sanjay Dutt met Maanyata whose real name is Dilnawaz Sheikh in 2006. After dating each-other for two years and knowing each-other well, they decided to get married. However, there is a huge age gap of 19 years between the couple, but it did not work as barrier for them. They respect each-other’s religion and individuality and has been a big support for him in his toughest time of life.

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Sohail Khan and Seem Sachdeva: Their love story is not less than a Bollywood movie story. The duo was so madly in love each-other that they run away when Sohail’s first movie as a director, “Pyaar Kiya to Darna Kya” was released. They married in different styles, first time in Arya Samaj rituals and later performed the Punjabi rituals as Seema is a Punjabi. However, they also have Nikah ceremony as well later in the evening. Their marriage tale was very filmy and full of turns and twists, but still they followed their wishes and decided to go against to their family and tied the knot. However, later on their families accepted them and they are well settled.

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Soha Ali Khan and Kunal Khemu: They are the latest to join the married club of inter-religion couples. They dated each other for a very long time before reaching to the decision of getting married. They got married in 2014. They met for the first time on the sets of “Dhoondthe Reh Jaoge (2009)” and fell in love. They were in a live-in relationship for a good time and knowing each-other well they finally got married. Kunal Khemu is Hindu and Soha Ali Khan is Muslim, apart from the religious difference nothing stopped them to tie the knot.

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Perfect wedding knot, A Writer Meets Geek

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Somaya Kashayap, is a qualified marketing expert, but she pursued her passion of writing and made it her career too. She is one among all those happy go lucky youngsters who want to live on their own terms and want a life partner who is understanding and adjusting. She is a profound writer and enthusiastic about things in life. She loves to explore, read, experiment and go crazy with friends. A girl full of life and dreams. As a writer she is ready to explore new things and always loves to meet new people. Her 9 to 6 job is a place where she can experiment and live her passion. She is happy with job, friends, the work she is doing and her lifestyle. One day her mom asked her to see a photograph that was lying on the table. She asked what is it for? Her mom replied, a marriage proposal for her. She was surprised because for her life is easy, simple, full of fun. Now, this is the turning point in her life. She doesn’t want to settle down with someone whom she hardly knows. She told her mother that she is not ready for this marriage and she doesn’t want to go for the traditional way of marriage where she is required to behave like a showpiece and puppet.

This time she managed to escape from this marriage proposal, but she is sure next time her mother will not listen to anything. After two weeks, she once again came up with another proposal and forced her to see the photo of that guy. But, she was firm on her decision saying that she doesn’t want to be like a puppet of someone’s hand. Her mother asked, is there anyone in her life? She said, no there is no one, but for her this is not the right approach to find a life partner and settle down with someone who is unknown to her.

Next day, she discussed this with her office colleague Kavita. She suggested her to register with any good and genuine matrimonial site. Somaya recalled that once she got a promotional mail from Lovevivah.com, a matrimonial site which ensures Aadhaar verification of profiles for higher trust level. She registered on Lovevivah.com. Her friend also told her about the site. She found registration simple and easy. She completed all the verification process. That night she logged in again to explore the site and search the profiles. There she found a profile meeting her partner preferences. She decided to contact that guy. His name was Raghav Nair, a guy from Kerala. She viewed his profile and images and sent him an invite. Next day, she received a notification indicating that Raghav accepted her invite.

She decided to send a chat message to Raghav through site. He did not respond for next three days and she thought that he is not interested. But, fourth day, she received an offline chat from Raghav stating that he was out of town for some seminar and was bit busy. She was happy with his response because he also seemed interested in her profile. Now, her journey to find a perfect partner began on a positive note. They chatted for almost two months and later decided to meet.

Somaya asked him for a good place which would be convenient for both as both were working in Gurgaon only. They decided to meet in a nearby restaurant on Friday evening, as last day of the week is bit relieved from office stress with no hurry to reach home on time.. She waited for him for almost 30 minutes, but Raghav did not reach. She decided to make a call to him to know his whereabouts. The moment she picked up the call, Raghav said, Hi Somaya. She was happy to see him because he was exactly same as his pictures. He was really simple and down to earth. He was looking like a typical geek, messy clothes, unorganized and a laptop in his hands. After talking with him for 10 minutes, she found him interesting and intelligent as well. But one thing she realized in the first meeting that he is an introvert and a typical geek, who loves to spend most of his time with gizmos and technology. For Somaya her work is a 9 to 6 job and if she is not writing something, then she must be reading something. But, for Raghav, his job is not restricted to hours and timing. He is working more than 10 hours every day and even on Sundays as well if required. But, there are other things which made her realize that he is very compatible for her.

Even Raghav was a bit nervous, because this was the first time when he met some girl and that too for marriage, a very serious relationship. Another thing which was bothering him was that he didn’t tell anyone about this meeting, not even his family and friends. He did not want to create any ho-halla for that. After meeting Somaya, he was also happy because he found her simple, sweet, down-to-earth and happy go lucky person.

After reaching home, she told about him to her mother and asked her to talk to his parents. He too discussed the same with his parents. His parents were not very sure about the match because they were from Kerala and Somaya was from UP. They have different caste, traditions and way of living. But, after listening to the views of their parents they decided to take some time to know each other well to reach to next level.

They continued talking to each-other for next few months. Every passing day, they got this strong feeling that they have many things in common, which makes them a perfect match to complement each-other. Once again, they asked their parents to meet at least once and then only take the decision. Their parents agreed to meet. It was a tough call for both the families, but still they agreed to do it for the sake of finding a perfect partner for their kids, which every parent wants to.

Somaya and Raghav’s family reached the venue on time and both the families were feeling bit awkward as their kids arranged the meeting for them. But, once they started the conversation, both families found each other easy going and simple. They decided to take this meeting to next level by fixing their marriage. They called the Pandit ji for matching their kundali’s, as Raghav’s family believed in it a lot. Pandit ji told them about the auspicious dates in the month of December, January and March. They agreed to the date of December, for their marriage. This was one of the most memorable days for both of them. They never thought that a simple registration with a matrimonial site could help them meet their perfect life-partner. Though they had different lifestyle, thought process, profession and culture,but nothing matters if you know what you want in life. For Somaya and Raghav, the process of searching a life partner was made easy by Lovevivah.com. They were able to search a partner on their own terms without any compromise.

Somaya is very happy with Raghav.  She believes that registering with Lovevivah was the right decision. She is happy because she was not required to go through the typical process of meeting different people and behaving like a puppet and facing rejections. She is happy because she was not required to make undesired changes in her lifestyle and professional life because she knew Raghav was also in an industry where he was required to put extra efforts and time to achieve professional goals. So, a writer meets geek through our portal, what’s your search story?

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“Key to win the confidence”: Mr. Gaurav Aggarwal, Founder & President, Lovevivah.com

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dainik-jagran-date-24-7-2017-pg-9-001An interview of Mr. Gaurav Aggarwal has been published in Dainik Jagran on 24th July, 2017. He has shared his success mantra and his journey so far. He also stated in the interview that there is no shortcut for success and you should give your 100% to achieve it.