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Five Magical Statements to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Spouse

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Every couple is different and the formula of their happiness and success of their marriage is different from other. Similarly, the love language is different for different couples. You can’t rate all couples at one level. When you are in this relationship, you always want to feel blessed and happy. You always want to enjoy the blissful marriage and at the same time you want to feel loved. There is nothing better than the feeling that there is someone who is always there for you. You always feel special and want to make your spouse to feel special because the love and bond you share with him/her. Here, we are sharing five magical statements to strengthen your relationship with spouse.

I love you for what you are: This is very soothing and satisfying statement when you listen this from your spouse. You always feel happy to listen to this that your spouse accepts you and love you for whatever you are. He/she does not want to make any changes in you or in your habits, but they are happy with you and accept you with your positive and negative sides. This makes your relationship stronger and better. You enjoy your relationship with your spouse more than anything else.

I trust you: This is another statement which gives you and your relationship a new strength. Trust is one of the most important factors of one’s life and you can’t imagine a relationship without trust. The core element behind the successful marriage is trust. When you listen to this statement “I trust you” it means a lot to you as couple because you know that in all ups and downs of life your spouse will be with you and trust you.

You are my world: When you listen to these golden words you feel special and loved. When your spouse said this to you that you are my world, it gives a new life to your relationship. All of us want to feel the warmth of love and care in our life. We don’t want to feel ignored and neglected, but when we heard this for your spouse you are everything, then it means a lot to you.

I can’t imagine a day without you: No matter how bad you are feeling because of any silly reason, but when you listen to this, you feel special and blessed with true love from your spouse. When your spouse says these golden words to that he/she can’t imagine a day without him/her, it gives you sense of belongingness and togetherness. Therefore, this special statement gives you a sense of love and pride. It gives you a sense that you hold a special place in his/her life and it will be difficult for him/her without you.

I am happy when I am with you: Happiness is one of the important factors behind the success of any relationship. If you are happy in your relationship, then nothing will bother you and you will not feel sad or regret for anything. The relationship of a husband and wife is very crucial and you can’t imagine the longevity of this relationship in the absence of happiness. If you are not happy in this special bond, then it will appear a burden to you. Therefore, this kind of statements gives you a sense of security and assurance that you are on the right track and your relationship will become stronger and stronger over the period of time.

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Secrets of Happy Marriage Revealed!

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“Happily ever after” can be achieved in real life too, it is not meant as a tag in movies only. It is not a fairy tale or something that can’t be achieved. It is something that can be easily achieved and enjoyed if you make small efforts to make your married life happily ever after. You can enjoy this status by investing a little time and making big and small efforts. If you too think that it is not easy to get this status of “Happily ever after”, we are here reveling some secrets of happy marriage to make your journey simple and blissful.

Don’t compromise happiness: This is one of the golden rules of happy marriage. You should not forget one thing that matter in a relationship is happiness. You can survive in the absence of a few materialistic things, but you can’t survive in the absence of happiness. Don’t compromise your happiness with anything in your married life. So, work on things which make you happy as couple to enjoy the blissful married life.

Be thankful: This is very necessary to be thankful to your spouse. Always be thankful to the things and efforts your spouse is making to make your day-to-day life simple and comforting be it the smallest thing of keeping your wardrobe organized or making food. Be thankful to your spouse and make your partner feel special that you always recognize his/her efforts.

Keep your expectations high: You must have heard a lot about the reverse statement that to enjoy a blissful marriage you should not have too high expectations or you should not expect something extraordinary from your marriage or partner. But, this is not really convincing. Always keep your expectations high from your spouse and relationship as well. This will work as motivator and encourage you to work as a team and increase your understanding as couple. You will work as team to meet your expectations.

Trust your partner: To enjoy a happy marriage trust is one of the most important aspects. Your marriage can’t survive in the absence of trust. Trust factor is very important for marriage. You should work on building trust in your partner. Doubting your partner at times is very common phenomena in marriage, but not trusting your partner is dangerous for the future of your marriage. Always build your relationship strong with a great level of trust.

Don’t hesitate to show your love physically: You should not hesitate to show your love physically to your spouse. Physical chemistry and attachment are binding factors in marriage. You should not hesitate to express and your love to your partner. Embrace him/her with hug, or kiss or something else which you think will connect you with your partner. Moreover, you should build your own physical signs to express your love to your spouse.

Have financial transparency: Financial transparency is another important aspect in building healthy, happy and strong relationship with your spouse. Be transparent in your financial matters. You should be clear and transparent about your financial status, savings and financial liabilities. If you don’t discuss and share the exact financial status with your spouse, then there are chances that you will face issues in future because of wrong financial expectations from your partner.

Enjoy surprises: Surprise is something that gives new life to your married life. To enjoy the spark of love in your married life don’t forget to give sweet surprises to your partner. All of us love surprises and you can’t deny the importance of surprise as it helps in bringing you closer and cherishing some happy memories.

Plan a date: Planning a surprise date can give the much desired boost to your love life in marriage. It will not only make you break the ice of monotony, besides help in strengthening your relationship. Dating is not only meant for youngsters or unmarried couples, but it is equally important for married people as well. You should always plan a date whenever you get time or whenever you want to add zing of love to daily routine life.

Compliment your spouse: Do you think that compliment is always welcomed by females only? But, this is not true, compliment is welcomed by males as well. If you think that your husband is looking great in a particular shirt, then don’t forget to mention this. This is applied on males as well. If your lady love is looking gorgeous, then don’t forget to mention that to her that she is looking great.

Behave like a team: You are like a team, while maintaining your individuality don’t forget that you are a team. You are a team and should always be in sync. In every good and not so good situation you should always behave like a team. You are working towards the same objectives and you are a team.

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Perfect wedding knot, A Writer Meets Geek

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Somaya Kashayap, is a qualified marketing expert, but she pursued her passion of writing and made it her career too. She is one among all those happy go lucky youngsters who want to live on their own terms and want a life partner who is understanding and adjusting. She is a profound writer and enthusiastic about things in life. She loves to explore, read, experiment and go crazy with friends. A girl full of life and dreams. As a writer she is ready to explore new things and always loves to meet new people. Her 9 to 6 job is a place where she can experiment and live her passion. She is happy with job, friends, the work she is doing and her lifestyle. One day her mom asked her to see a photograph that was lying on the table. She asked what is it for? Her mom replied, a marriage proposal for her. She was surprised because for her life is easy, simple, full of fun. Now, this is the turning point in her life. She doesn’t want to settle down with someone whom she hardly knows. She told her mother that she is not ready for this marriage and she doesn’t want to go for the traditional way of marriage where she is required to behave like a showpiece and puppet.

This time she managed to escape from this marriage proposal, but she is sure next time her mother will not listen to anything. After two weeks, she once again came up with another proposal and forced her to see the photo of that guy. But, she was firm on her decision saying that she doesn’t want to be like a puppet of someone’s hand. Her mother asked, is there anyone in her life? She said, no there is no one, but for her this is not the right approach to find a life partner and settle down with someone who is unknown to her.

Next day, she discussed this with her office colleague Kavita. She suggested her to register with any good and genuine matrimonial site. Somaya recalled that once she got a promotional mail from Lovevivah.com, a matrimonial site which ensures Aadhaar verification of profiles for higher trust level. She registered on Lovevivah.com. Her friend also told her about the site. She found registration simple and easy. She completed all the verification process. That night she logged in again to explore the site and search the profiles. There she found a profile meeting her partner preferences. She decided to contact that guy. His name was Raghav Nair, a guy from Kerala. She viewed his profile and images and sent him an invite. Next day, she received a notification indicating that Raghav accepted her invite.

She decided to send a chat message to Raghav through site. He did not respond for next three days and she thought that he is not interested. But, fourth day, she received an offline chat from Raghav stating that he was out of town for some seminar and was bit busy. She was happy with his response because he also seemed interested in her profile. Now, her journey to find a perfect partner began on a positive note. They chatted for almost two months and later decided to meet.

Somaya asked him for a good place which would be convenient for both as both were working in Gurgaon only. They decided to meet in a nearby restaurant on Friday evening, as last day of the week is bit relieved from office stress with no hurry to reach home on time.. She waited for him for almost 30 minutes, but Raghav did not reach. She decided to make a call to him to know his whereabouts. The moment she picked up the call, Raghav said, Hi Somaya. She was happy to see him because he was exactly same as his pictures. He was really simple and down to earth. He was looking like a typical geek, messy clothes, unorganized and a laptop in his hands. After talking with him for 10 minutes, she found him interesting and intelligent as well. But one thing she realized in the first meeting that he is an introvert and a typical geek, who loves to spend most of his time with gizmos and technology. For Somaya her work is a 9 to 6 job and if she is not writing something, then she must be reading something. But, for Raghav, his job is not restricted to hours and timing. He is working more than 10 hours every day and even on Sundays as well if required. But, there are other things which made her realize that he is very compatible for her.

Even Raghav was a bit nervous, because this was the first time when he met some girl and that too for marriage, a very serious relationship. Another thing which was bothering him was that he didn’t tell anyone about this meeting, not even his family and friends. He did not want to create any ho-halla for that. After meeting Somaya, he was also happy because he found her simple, sweet, down-to-earth and happy go lucky person.

After reaching home, she told about him to her mother and asked her to talk to his parents. He too discussed the same with his parents. His parents were not very sure about the match because they were from Kerala and Somaya was from UP. They have different caste, traditions and way of living. But, after listening to the views of their parents they decided to take some time to know each other well to reach to next level.

They continued talking to each-other for next few months. Every passing day, they got this strong feeling that they have many things in common, which makes them a perfect match to complement each-other. Once again, they asked their parents to meet at least once and then only take the decision. Their parents agreed to meet. It was a tough call for both the families, but still they agreed to do it for the sake of finding a perfect partner for their kids, which every parent wants to.

Somaya and Raghav’s family reached the venue on time and both the families were feeling bit awkward as their kids arranged the meeting for them. But, once they started the conversation, both families found each other easy going and simple. They decided to take this meeting to next level by fixing their marriage. They called the Pandit ji for matching their kundali’s, as Raghav’s family believed in it a lot. Pandit ji told them about the auspicious dates in the month of December, January and March. They agreed to the date of December, for their marriage. This was one of the most memorable days for both of them. They never thought that a simple registration with a matrimonial site could help them meet their perfect life-partner. Though they had different lifestyle, thought process, profession and culture,but nothing matters if you know what you want in life. For Somaya and Raghav, the process of searching a life partner was made easy by Lovevivah.com. They were able to search a partner on their own terms without any compromise.

Somaya is very happy with Raghav.  She believes that registering with Lovevivah was the right decision. She is happy because she was not required to go through the typical process of meeting different people and behaving like a puppet and facing rejections. She is happy because she was not required to make undesired changes in her lifestyle and professional life because she knew Raghav was also in an industry where he was required to put extra efforts and time to achieve professional goals. So, a writer meets geek through our portal, what’s your search story?

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Ask Some Important Questions Before Getting Serious in Relationship

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When you are thinking too serious about someone special in your life, you start making a lot of plans about your future. But, it is important to think before things became really hot between you two. You must have shared many thoughts and dream with him/her, but it is equally important to know his/her views and thoughts on the same before you take the next step in life. It is important to know and check that you are on the same page and you are thinking alike. Is he/she also feeling the same what you are feeling for him/her? Therefore, it becomes more important to ask a few important questions to understand what he/she feels about you and your special relationship.

What are his/her future plans?: You should always ask this question to that someone special before you create your own fairy tale with him/her. Ask what he/she thinks about you? What are his/her future plans with you? It is important to know what he/she feels about you and keeping your future in mind as future couple. If he/she thinks that you two should remain as good friends as you are today, then you should hold your emotions back and move on.

Is he/she is ready for commitment: This is another big question in front of those who are in a relationship. You love to be with each-other. You love to spend more time together, but you don’t want to make any commitment or promises in relationship. You are happy with your open relationship where you have fewer expectations and liabilities towards each-other.

What is cheating for you?: This is another important question to ask him/her before you became serious in the relationship. What he/she thinks about cheating and what will be their reaction and something similar he/she will face in the future? For some people online intimacy or chatting with someone is acceptable, but some people will count it as cheating. Therefore, it becomes more important to know how he/she will react if something similar happens in the future.

Do you mind to accept this relationship publicly?  Ask him/her that whether he/she would mind to discuss about your relationship with anyone. There are many people who don’t like to discuss about their relationship with anyone else. There are many people who don’t want to make their relationship public and always want to keep it secret.

Is he/she ready to face any worse situation for you?: Making commitment is one thing and taking a strong stand for your commitment is another thing. Is he/she ready to stand for your relationship if things go south in the future? Is he/she ready to face anything for survival of your relationship? If he/she also feels equally strong about this relationship or he/she is ready to stand by you in all the circumstances, then you need not to worry about this relationship and its future.

Is there is something which you should know?: This is another important thing which you should consider before taking a next step in your relationship. Ask is there something which you should know before getting serious about this relationship. Is there something which you should know before taking this relationship to next level, be it about his/her past, family, any other past relationship or something which might affect your future?

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Appreciate Your Husband to Strengthen Your Relationship

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The relationship of husband and wife is built over trust and love. It is one of the most important and integral part of married life. Apart from love and appreciation, you also require a lot of things to get going and enjoy a happy relationship. Appreciating your husband doesn’t mean that you are buttering him or you have some hidden desires because of that you are praising. But, true appreciation with pure feelings is very important to show your love and to strengthen your relationship with husband. We all love words of appreciation and similar thing exist in our marriage as well. Your husband also expects word of appreciation from you to feel great. Here, we are sharing some tips to appreciate your husband and strengthen your relationship.

Appreciate his efforts: If he is doing something for you out of love or because he is worried for you. It is important to appreciate his efforts. If he is good with something like collecting something, or he is very organized or something which you think that you must acknowledge, so appreciate his efforts.

Appreciate his taste: We all have some special qualities and your husband must be having something special. If his fashion sense is outstanding and he is good with it, then don’t forget to mention it or appreciate it. If he is too foodie and loves to explore and experiment with food, or loves to explore new places, then appreciate him and enjoy his company.

Show your trust: No relationship can survive in the absence of trust and faith. Always show your trust and faith in him. When you discuss anything with him or he asked you to take some important decision because he thinks it is good for your family, then show your trust in his decision. While taking important decisions ask for his opinion and views. Take his help and show him that you believe in him.

Praise him for his decision-making ability: When he makes some important decisions like financial decision, professional decision or something else, respect his decision skills. In such situation where his decisions helped you to sail through bad time, don’t praise his decision-making skills. Show your trust in his right decisions.

Show him respect: Respecting your partner is very important. Respecting your partner doesn’t mean that you never say anything or put your opinion. Showing respect to your partner means you respect and love him for what he is. Make him feel that he is your hero and he is perfect for you. He must feel special and great for being what he is.

Don’t forget to compliment: If he is looking good, then don’t forget to tell him that he is looking handsome or great in your own ways. Complimenting your partner will help in strengthening your love with your partner.

Compliment his patience: For instance, if he is visiting some showroom with you to buy something and he is being patient with it then respects his patience. He will be more than receptive when your next request comes later on. Appreciating him and complimenting his effort will make him feel that he holds some special place in your heart and life.

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