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Looking for more responses on matrimonial profile? Use smart tricks to send interest

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Have you already created your matrimonial profile, but not sure how to send interest and receive more responses on your interest? If you are also wondering how to express your interest on matrimonial website to get the positive response from other registered members, then you are at right place. Welcome to the bachelor’s club who are nervous, excited and confused at the same time because it is not easy to approach someone for the marriage purpose. Approaching a prospective life partner and expressing your interest is first and important step where you can’t afford to go wrong or take any risk. But, it is a nerve-wracking experience for most of the people because most of the people find it awkward. Here, we are sharing some smart and simple tips and messages to express interest on different matrimonial profiles before you take your interest to the next level with your prospective partner.

Sample interest of professional: “Hi, ABCD, I found your matrimonial profile very impressive and I strongly believe that your profile is matching my partner preferences and suitable for me. I am 30-year-old, Financial Analyst living in Gurgaon. I have recently created my profile with Lovevivah.com. I really liked the information you shared in your profile. Please review my profile and let me know if you too are interest in my profile.”

Sample interest of career oriented women: I am a 26-year-old Fashion Designer. I am based out of Mumbai and belong to an upper middle-class family. My family is based out of Kota, my father is a businessman, and runs our family business of antiques and carpets. I am looking for a life partner who is professionally settled with good family background. I am very passionate about my career and want to continue my career after marriage as well. I am looking for someone who would respect my professional aspirations and will support me in my career. I found your profile meeting my expectations. I will be delighted if you can review my profile and get back to me with positive response.

Sample interest of software engineer: “Hi Rashmi, I came across your profile at lovevivah.com and liked your profile very much. I wanted to fix a time to talk to you/your parents if you find my profile suitable and meeting your partner expectations. My brother has created my profile and most of the time manages my account too. I will be happy to answer your questions if you have any before we move forward and take the next big step.”

Sample of generic interest: I reviewed your profile and found that we have a lot of similarities and common expectations from our prospective life partner. Please review my profile and let me know if you also find my profile interesting. It would be better if we can chat or have a telephonic conversation before we move forward and take the next step. You can call me between 5PM to 7PM if you find it suitable. Else, you can also drop me a message. I look forward to hear from you.

Sample interest from boy: “Hi Parul, I checked your matrimonial profile and I am very impressed with your professional background and educational achievements. I am from a Brahmin family and belong to Banaras. Presently, my family is based out of Pune, where I am working as a Senior Manager at HCL. I love playing badminton and I am kind of workaholic. I am looking for a partner who is also passionate about her career. I found many similarities in your matrimonial profile. If you too find my matrimonial profile interesting, do send me a note/message. Best Regards.”

Sample interest by parents: Dear Madam, I checked profile of your son and I found his profile interesting. It can be a good match for my daughter. She is presently working as Sales Manager in an MNC in Bangalore. She is very thoughtful, cultured and highly educated. I am a Senior Manager at Bank of Baroda and my wife is a housewife. My elder daughter is married and settled in Germany. Please review my daughter’s profile and do get back to me.

Sample interest by sibling to parent: “Dear Sir, can you please review the profile of my brother and let me know if you find it suitable for your daughter. I am elder sister of Rohit Singh, who is presently working as Project Manager with Infosys at Bangalore. He has completed his MBA from IIM Calcutta and Masters in Business Management from University of California, USA. He an extrovert, has a modern outlook and very flexible towards things. I will be happy to share more details about our family and social background if you find my brother’s matrimonial profile matching your expectations.  

Annoyed with Your Husband? Never Say These Things To Your Husband

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Marriage is not always sunshine, you do experience the edges in the journey of your married life. When you are annoyed and unhappy with your spouse you say a lot of things to your partner that you regret later. No matter how unhappy you are with him or how bad you are feeling because of his behavior, but you should never say a few things to your spouse. Marriage is a very special relationship and you should never take this relationship or your partner for granted. To enjoy a blissful and happy marriage, you should always give respect to your partner. Here, we are sharing list of things which you should never say to your partner.

I can’t live with you: This is something very common among couples. Most of the couples say this to their spouse during their fights. Generally, you make statements like, “it is really difficult to live with you” or “I can’t live with you anymore” or “I want to go back to my parents’ home”. All these statements give him a feeling that you don’t believe in this relationship and it’s a kind of burden on you. This will give him a kind of negative feeling about self. Avoid such kind of statements when you are annoyed with your husband.

I don’t believe you: Trust is a very important factor in relationship. If you suspect your partner or you think that he is untruthful, saying this can affect your relationship like anything. If you have trouble with your husband’s habits, you find something suspicious, then it is better to discuss this, rather than making a fuss over it and shouting on your partner. Focus more on asking questions to clear your confusion, rather than making such bold statement. Such statement might backfire and chop your relationship.

You are overreacting: This is one statement which might annoy your partner. When you are not happy with the reaction of your partner, you tend to make statements like you are overreacting, but instead of saying things like “you are overreacting”, or “you are too sensitive”, or “you are too emotional” or “don’t be so defensive”, it is better you try to resolve the issue. Instead of telling him how to react, find ways to ease his tension and worries. Even if you are not able to resolve the issue, listen to his thoughts calmly without judging him.

I am not your maid: When you are angry with your life partner or during your fights, you make statements like, “I am not your maid”, “I have never done this in my life, but I am doing this here day and night” or “At times, I feel like I am not more than a maid in this house”, all such statements will give him a kind of feeling that he is not able to keep you happy. Such kind of statements will give him a sense that you are doing this because of some compulsion, but not because you feel yourself a part of the family. So, making such statements might irritate him and take your fight to some other level.

Are you that stupid?: Making statements like, “are you that stupid?”, “that’s an awful idea”, “how could you be so dumb?”, all such statements are very hurtful for your partner. He might be doing something in ignorance or unintentionally, but making such statements might hurt his sentiments. Supporting your partner is very important for a healthy relationship. Unsupportive statements can harm your relationship with your partner.

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Some Smart and Coolest Ways To Say No To Any Arranged Marriage Proposal

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In our society, most of the arranged marriage meetings are driven by parents and relatives and as prospective bride and groom you hardly play any important role in the first meeting and even in the decision making. Your parents and the Jodi maker aunties and uncles ensure that all the things are lined up well and they get a yes from both the parties. In most of the cases, the boy and girl feel awkward and like a puppet in the first marriage meeting. There are numerous incidents where you have heard that how the marriage proposal or meeting turned surreal either for the boy or girl. To avoid such situation, it is best to say no to marriage proposal and save your soul. It is very natural that if you receive any marriage proposal you will not say yes to all the marriage proposals, you will surely say no to some with some or the other reasons. However, there are people who give weird reasons to reject a marriage proposal and annoy all, but to make the situation comfortable for all, say no to unwanted marriage proposal smartly.

I am not ready: Most of the marriage proposals in arranged marriage came from distant relatives, family friends and close friends. Generally, people find it difficult to handle. Girls are generally pressurized to meet the prospective groom and his family and even to accept the marriage proposal. If you too find such situation complicated and tensed, it is better to tackle it diplomatically and say No to proposal smartly. When you are meeting a girl/boy for arranged marriage, you can use these responses:

“I am flattered with your personality and positive attitude. But I am not yet ready for this big thing.”

“I need some more time to prepare myself for this big decision. I hope you will find a suitable match soon.”

I don’t find you compatible: If you don’t find the prospective life partner matching your expectations, then you should reject the proposal smartly. It is better to be more diplomatic in your approach to avoid any unwanted situation. During your conversation with the boy/girl tell about your partner preferences and expectations upfront. Tell her/him that, you do not find him/her meeting your partner preferences and you don’t find him/her compatible. Don’t hesitate to tell that compatibility with your partner is very important and it will be difficult to make a new beginning if you don’t find a compatible partner.

Saying no to online proposal: Nowadays, people register themselves with matrimonial sites, even parents create profile for their son/daughter with these matrimonial sites to find a suitable life partner, as they find it more easy and simple to find a life partner with the help of these matrimonial sites. However, on these matrimonial sites you are not supposed to please anyone, therefore you can any time reject or accept any matrimonial interest. But, if you find any proposal unsuitable and you want to reject it, then you can simple decline the interest by clicking on the available button. You can also write a short note stating, “Thanks for your interest, I reviewed your profile and find your profile not meeting my partner preference. Once again thanks for your interest and best of luck for you search.”

I want to settle down professionally: Rejection hurts and you feel sad and depressed when somebody rejects you. You feel more bad when you know that you still have a chance to meet that person and take this marriage proposal to next level. If you don’t want to give stupid reasons and make your rejection statement more convincing, you can mention that you first want to settle down professionally and then only you want to tie the wedding knot. This way you will not make any depressing and weird statement to reject someone and sound more responsible and intelligent.

Saying No after first meeting: Saying no after first meeting becomes more complicated because you don’t want to hurt anyone. Therefore, saying no after first meeting should be done with elegance, considering the other person’s emotions and expectations. Always ensure that you are conveying your message politely and diplomatically. Don’t rely upon the mediator to communicate your message, if you don’t find the other person compatible, then convey the message to your parents or to him/her directly stating that you are not the kind of person you are looking for as life partner, rather than creating confusion for the other person and his/her family.

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Do You Think Only Looks Matter in A Relationship?

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Do you think that only looks matter in a relationship? Do you think that you need to be good looking and extremely beautiful to marry the most eligible man? Most of us generally believe that men always want to marry the most beautiful girl. But, is this really true? Actually, people have their own perceptions and choices. This is partially true that to woo someone you can use your charm and beauty, but to enjoy and live in a relationship, you need to have something extra in you. Here, we are sharing a few things which matter more than your looks for your man.

Your support: A relationship can’t survive in the absence of healthy support for each-other. Your partner always expects a good support from you. Relationship is not just about enjoying the happy moments and feeling lovey-dovey. It is much more than that; you need to be a good support for your partner. Always support him in his good and bad time to build a strong relationship.

Your understanding: This is something he always wants from you as a partner. A good understanding partner is always better than a clingy partner. Always try to be more understanding when you are in a relationship. It is quite possible that you are not always convinced with him and his thoughts, but you can at least try to understand his point and listen to him.

Your trust: Trust is very important for a healthy relationship. If you don’t trust your partner, there are chances that your relationship will not last for a longer time. In absence of trust you may face complications in your relationship. For a healthy and strong relationship your trust for your partner is important. Show trust in Him, his ideas, thoughts and even in his words. No matter what do you feel about his thoughts, but showing your trust in him will give him strength to excel in life.

Good listener: Men always admire those females who are good listener. No doubt that you are a non-stop chatter, but at times it is equally important to listen to his thoughts. At times, you need someone to listen to your thoughts. If your partner is your good friend who is always ready to listen to your thoughts without judging you or doubting you, nothing could be better than this feeling. If your partner is a good listener then you don’t need someone else in life to share your feeling and thoughts.

Your ambitions: Men are mostly attracted to females who are ambitious.  They prefer to have a life partner who has her own goals and ambitions in life – both at personal and professional level. Though there might be instances when your partner’s professional goals might become hindrance in your personal relationship, still the admiration for ambitious life partner by men cannot be denied. You are being independent: Generally, men don’t like clingy females or those females who are dependent. Looking up to your partner’s help for each and everything, be it small or big, is not really appreciated. If you know how to manage things at your own then there is no doubt that your man will be happier with you and always admire your independence.

Your cooking skills: You must have heard this many times that you can easily win the heart of your man if you are a good cook. Most of the men are food lovers and they are grown up in such an environment that they always want to have good food. All men want their wife to be a good cook, and this is one of the basic expectations. So, if you are the one who loves to cook food then your skills will always be appreciated by him.

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Do You Think That Searching A Life Partner Is Really Tough?

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Have you crossed the age of 24 years and your whole family and relatives are after your life to get married? Do you want to look for a compatible and understanding partner, but not sure about how to search for a life partner? Searching a compatible life partner for kids is a war-level task for parents and they leave no stone unturned to find the most suitable partner for their child’s marriage. They spread this news with everyone that they are looking for a partner for their kids. “Bete/beti ki shaadi karni hai, koi rishta batana.” But do you think that finding a life partner with this conventional method is that easy? The whole process of arranged marriage is so tiring, cumbersome and full of hurdles from the day one to the final marriage day. Here, we are covering some topics giving jittery nights to all parents, but how matrimonial sites have made their life easy.

Searching a partner is “Total Siyapa”. In our country marriage is all about confusion and hurdles. Finding a life partner is not easy and simple. When you start your search, you come to know that it is really tough to find someone meeting your requirements with the help of relatives, friends and middle man. Rajni Kaur, Delhi, said, “Main apne bete ki shaadi ke liye ladki dekh rahi hun, ladki search karna total siyapa hai”. According to her, it is really tough to find someone who is equally compatible. But, now she has created a profile for her son on a matrimonial site, after meeting more than 10 girls referred through personal relations. She further added, “Saying no to someone from a known family is more difficult, rather than saying no to someone you meet through matrimonial site.”

Hello ji, fix ho gayi shaadi? This is one question which haunts all parents when they start the search which all friends and family members are aware of. Whether you are attending someone’s wedding or a family function, one question which everyone around will ask is  -  “Fix ho gayi shaadi?” It is something like their son or daughter is the only one left out without marriage. So, this question haunts them like anything. But, if you register with any matrimonial site you are not supposed to give reply to such questions because you are searching the partner at your ease where rest of the world is not involved in the search process. Moreover, you are not bothered to tell them about your search.

Tough call to take: When you start the partner search then it is really tough to decide and take a call to meet someone. The first step of meeting someone is really difficult, because you don’t want to meet each and every one. It is really difficult to decide who will be the perfect partner for their kid. Kamal Kumar Saini, Aligarh, said, “Humko to shaadi ke liye milne jane main badi tension hoti hai.” He further added, “ Kisi ko na bolna acha nahi lagta, aur jis se baat karo wo hi milne ke liye bolta hai. Bada mushkil hai sab.” So, as a parent you too don’t feel good to say no to someone because you don’t want to hurt the sentiments of others. But, if you register with a matrimonial site, you can meet only those whom you want to meet. You don’t need to meet someone if you are not fully convinced. Here you have freedom to ask for photographs, more information and talk to them online. So, if you are not happy with the details you can easily say no to someone and you are not required to meet someone.

Call, call and call everyone: The only thing you are doing on weekend is either making a call to someone regarding the marriage proposal or you attending a call from others for the same. This is really difficult to be on call all the time on weekends. But, if you register with matrimonial site, you make a call to only those whom you find suitable for you. You are not required to make random calls to get the basic information.

Meet the most eligible one: If you have registered with any of the matrimonial site you are not required to meet everyone, but you can meet only those who are meeting 100% of your requirements. Here you are not forced to meet someone because he is friend of your relatives or someone known. If you search a life partner through traditional way, you are expected to meet even those whom you do not find eligible, just for the sake of some middle man involved in the process. But, the best thing with matrimonial sites is you are not forced to meet someone if you don’t wish to. Sapna Mudgal, Mumbai, said, “I am fed up of meeting people on weekends as if I am showpiece. After registering with matrimonial site, my parents don’t force me to meet everyone as we first look at the details, and then only make a call to meet someone.” She also added, “Shaadi karna jaruri hai per inta bhi nahi ke har kisi se milte raho.”

Now it is tough to find someone: “Apni biradari mein to aap ko pata hi hai kitna mushkil hai shaadi karna is age mein”. This is one sentence which you all must have heard atleast once in your life if you have gone through the process of arranged marriage. If you reject four-five proposals, then you are labeled as someone who has high demands or people will comment like, “dimag kharab hai inka, inko koi nahi milega is tarah se shaadi karne ke liye.” But, thanks to these matrimonial websites which are savior for all. You can reject as many profiles as you want, till the time you don’t find someone most suitable. Moreover, you are not required to feel bad about anything.

Caste has everything to do with marriage: In arranged marriage caste plays a significant role. Most of the people want to find a suitable match within their caste. There comes a point when you don’t find a match within your caste and you open up for a prospective groom or bride from other castes, but hesitate to share the same with others. In such situation, matrimonial site helps you to search a life partner in different castes without any hurdle. These matrimonial websites offer you unlimited suitable matches in all castes. If you start searching a partner in another community and  your family and friends get to know, the first thing you will listen from them is “Inko shaadi nahi karni, bekar ka tamasha kar rahe hai, pahle hi pasand kar rakha hoga koi bachchon ne.” So, all this makes things more complicated for parents and even for the prospective bride or groom. On the other hand, these matrimonial sites don’t require such formalities except of filling some basic information to register with them.

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