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Be Selective, Don’t Accept All Interest on Your Matrimonial Profile

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Once you attain a certain age in our country or we call it marriageable age, then your whole family and whole world around you is bothered about your marriage. All your relatives, friends and family members keep on asking about when you will marry. One of my friends Rakshita, told me that she has recently created a profile on matrimonial site. She was very happy after creating the profile because now she is not required to meet everyone. She is also feeling happy because she is receiving a lot of interest on her matrimonial profile. But, she shared her experience and told me that she is very selective in her approach and doesn’t accept all invitations. She mentioned that she is taking all steps to stay safe on matrimonial site. She also shared how she is managing her profile to get the maximum out of her registered profile. I am here sharing some of the tips shared by her to manage the matrimonial profile and managing the interest received on the profile.

Check the profile: Always check the profile before you accept any interest or invitation from other registered member. Don’t accept any invitation just for the sake of it. It is not a dating or social networking site where every interest/invitation is important and you must accept all to increase the number. No, this is not the case of matrimonial profile. Before accepting any profiles always check it.

Read all details carefully: When you receive any interest from any of the registered member, before accepting or deleting the request read all the details carefully. Read the profile thoroughly, don’t just overlook the profile or see through the photographs only. Read every mentioned detail carefully.

Family status/background: This is something very important which you should never overlook when you receive any interest. Always check the family details. Try to find out more details about his/her parents, sibling, location and other important details. It will give you a glimpse of his financial and social status which is an important thing to consider before marriage life.

Check education as priority: Most of the people don’t mention all important details while registering with matrimonial sites. Education is one such thing which you should not ignore or overlook before accepting the interest in your profile. Nowadays, all of us look for a partner who is highly educated and settled. If you too have certain criteria about education, then check this as your priority.

Find out about common interest: This will help in checking the compatibility quotient of you two. While going through his/her profile try to find out the common interest or hobbies. It will help in understanding his/her lifestyle, interest, personality and social life. Compatibility is very important for this relationship and a lot of things based upon it after marriage. However, there is no surety that the common interest will result in yes for the marriage, but it is important to create a common platform to begin with.

Think about your priorities: Before accepting any profile interest, think about your priorities and interest. It is important that you make a check list of your priorities. What are you looking for in your life partner? What are your priorities of life? Do you want a professional or you are looking for someone really beautiful/handsome or something else. Make a checklist of your priorities and select or reject a profile based on that. It will make your partner search simple and easy. You will not waste time in meeting the wrong people.

Find out the seriousness: While going through the profile always check the seriousness of the profile. Read all the mentioned details, description about self, parents and other things. It will give a sense about seriousness of that person. It will also make you understand the genuineness of the profile.

See all photographs: Before selecting or rejecting any matrimonial interest, always check the photographs. Try to find out whether the photographs are original or crafted. It will also help in understanding the personality and lifestyle of the person. Also check is he/she looking of same age in the photographs that is mentioned in the profile details.

Know more about partner preference: Once you receive any partner interest on your profile read more about the partner preferences. It is important that you should be accepting the one who is meeting your partner preference or you are fitting into his/her partner preference. It will increase the chances of positive response. If you are not meeting his/her partner preference or he/she has sent you interest after viewing your photograph or educational details or something else. Find out such points and make your decision accordingly.

Consider the age: This is another important decision making factor. Always check the age of the profile before accepting the interest on your matrimonial profile. If he/she is too young or in the age of 22-23, there are chances that he/she has registered for the sake of registering not for marriage. Another thing to consider is how older or younger he/she to you. If the age gap is higher, there are chances of further complications. So, think about the prospects before accepting any matrimonial profile.

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7 Things to Avoid on Matrimonial Sites Before Going on First Meeting

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Nowadays, matrimonial sites have replaced the aunties and uncles who used to play the role of marriage maker or mediator between the two families. These matrimonial websites are simple to use.  Anyone can easily create their matrimonial profile and search a partner. But, the main concern of all registered members of these websites is to find the genuine and authentic profile. When you find a matrimonial profile matching your partner preference criteria, the first thing you do is to contact that person. But, there are a few things you should keep in mind before fixing your first meeting with that prospective partner.

  1. Verify the profile: Once you receive an interest on your profile from a registered member, always verify the profile. It is very important for your own safety and security. Before accepting any matrimonial interest, you should always verify the profile details. Check whether the details mentioned in the matrimonial profile are true or not.
  2. Check the genuineness: This is another big thing, which you should keep in mind while accepting any interest request. Always check the genuineness of the profile. Try to find out whether all the details mentioned on the profile like contact details, address, permanent address, email id and social medial details are true and genuine. If the website has some verification tool, use that tool. matrimonial-sites-meeting-3
  3. Check the authenticity of photographs: A matrimonial profile with photograph receive more interest as compared to a matrimonial profile without photographs. Most of the people update their photographs on these sites with their family, friends, vacation, office and other. But, it is important that you check the authenticity of these photographs. Try to find out whether these photographs are genuine or edited by some other tool to beautify. Also find out whether these photographs are recent or older. It will also give you a sense about the genuineness of the profile.matrimonial-sites-meeting-5
  4. Visit social media profiles: Most of the people are very active on different social media websites. While checking any matrimonial profile, visit the social media profiles of that person. Don’t forget to visit the Facebook, twitter, linkedIn and other social media profiles. It will help in understanding his/her activities, interest and kind of person he/she is at personal level.
  5. Are you meeting the whole criteria: You must have visited his/her profile before accepting the matrimonial interest? It is always good if you read the partner preference well in advance. Try to analyze whether you are meeting his/her partner preference and vice-versa.  Don’t accept the meeting invitation because he/she looks good or financially well-off. Always pay attention to your choice and expectations from your future partner. A small hasty decision can create a lot of problem for you in the future. So, be specific with your preferences. Meet only those who are meeting at least 80%-90% of your partner preferences.matrimonial-sites-meeting-1
  6. Don’t get too personal before meeting: If you have done all the verification part and you are satisfied with his/her details, then you can take the next step. If you find that person genuine and reliable, then there is no harm in chatting with that person. But, always be smart in your conversation. Don’t just get swayed away with emotions and share too much personal things and information with him/her. This thing you should avoid in your initial conversations. Sharing your personal details can be used negatively and can be manipulated in long run. Therefore, to avoid any issue in future, just pay attention to your words and share only required information.matrimonial-sites-meeting-2
  7. Don’t meet until you are not confident: Whether you are chatting with him/her from last two weeks or two months, don’t jump into meeting decision too soon. Unless or until you are not fully sure don’t agree for the meeting. There are many people who just say yes to meet everyone without even analyzing their profile. They even hardly bother to check the authenticity of the profile and just say yes for the meeting. But, this is not the right approach. These websites offer you unlimited features and services, use them to the maximum and stay safe. Even if you decided to meet that person, don’t go alone. Tell about this meeting to your parents or ask your parent or sibling to accompany you to the meeting place to avoid any unwanted situation.

 

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What Women Love in Men? All Secrets Revealed

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There are so many things which make her crazy about you. There are many things that can make a woman fall for you. She notices each and everything in your man and hardly tells you all. She falls in love with you not just because you are good looking or intelligent, but for thousand other reasons. If you are not sure about what makes her crazy for you, then you can consider these points for relationship. These simple things will make you feel that she loves you for everything what you are.

  1. She always loves the masculine smell of your perfume, it drives her crazy about you.
  2. She loves it when you give her the sweet glance and you keep on staring at her. This gives her a sense that you are loved and can’t keep your eyes off her.
  3. She always loves it when you talk to her something sweet and beautiful to woo her. She loves it when you say all flowery words to praise her.
  4. She loves it when you say her something in your husky voice.
  5. She loves to listen to your stories, thoughts, dreams and future plans.
  6. She always loves those romantic talks which you do with her.
  7. She loves and feels proud on you when you make important and critical decisions without any confusion.
  8. She always loves it when you ask her for a romantic movie or dinner date.
  9. She always loves it when you praise her dressing sense or ask her to wear something of your choice.
  10. She loves you more when you show your love and care for her and make her feel happy and comfortable if she is feeling sad because of something.
  11. She loves your statements when you tell her that you are there for her and will always be there for her.
  12. She always loves it when you tell her how to use that phone and about its functionalities.
  13. She loves it when fix something for her without much of problem.
  14. She loves it when you pay more attention to your work and work hard to achieve something in your professional life.
  15. She loves it when you bring something for her to give her a sweet surprise.
  16. She loves it when you sing some nice song for her in your not so perfect tone.
  17. She loves it when you open the door of the car and first let her sit first and feel comfortable.
  18. She loves it when you feel jealous and a little bit possessive about her.
  19. She loves you more when you let her express herself openly and freely in front of you.
  20. She loves you and respects you more, when you give her full independence to make her own decisions.

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5 Things You Should Always Do When You Are Meeting Someone For Arranged Marriage

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Are you going to meet him/her for the first time for arranged marriage? Are you feeling nervous or feeling excited to meet your future partner? Are you clueless about what you should you do on your first meeting when you meet him? If you are among those youngsters who are going to meet your future partner soon, then don’t worry we are here to help you. It is not tough to make your first impression lasting and listening ‘YES’ from him/her. Just make some smart moves and be little cautious when you are going to meet him/her for the first time.

Dress accordingly: When you are going to meet someone for the first time in arranged marriage concept, then dress accordingly. Don’t dress over the top and in too glittering clothes. It might be that you like your favorite suit so much, but if it is too loud, resist the temptation to wear it. Go for some simple and sophisticate dress.

Always remember to greet: Whether you are meeting him/her in the restaurant or at some temple or somewhere else don’t forget to say “Hello” or “Hi”. It is important to greet in the proper manner and begin the conversation. If you will not greet him or her it will give a bad impression.

Don’t think it is job interview: Don’t behave like you are sitting in an interview room and you need to pretend and say yes to every question or give detailed reply to every question asked to you. It is sometimes better to give reply in short and simple words.

Ask relevant questions: In your first meeting, if you are bit nervous and not sure about the right choice of questions, then filter your words and try to be more logical and specific with your questions. It is not important to ask questions for the sake of asking questions. Ask relevant questions and don’t ask questions about past love life, any sexual encounter, or something related to virginity or similar personal question. It might be the other person feel offended over such kind of questions and think a kind of attack on their character.

Be a good listener & observe body language: Meeting someone doesn’t mean that you need to just talk, talk and talk. Listening and observing the body language will be more helpful than talking irrelevant things. It will help in understanding the other person in a better way. Body language and facial expression are true self and you will be able to able to find out what is hidden behind the words. If the other person is thinking something positive about you he/she will give you a smile and will make eye contact with you. But if he/she is not interest in you he will avoid asking many questions and will avoid eye contact as well. So pay attention to body language and listen with attention.

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Don’t Want To Face Rejection In Arranged Marriage Meeting Avoid These Questions

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The idea of arranged marriage is really confusing and complicated. When you decided to go for arranged marriage, the whole process is time consuming and daunting. In all arranged marriage set-up, the first meeting with your future partner is very crucial and important. Both the girl and the boy should behave sensibly and maturely while meeting the first time. It is not about that the girls behave more sensitively, even the boys too behave in the same manner. In such odd situation, you need to be little cautious and ask right kind of questions. It is not just the responsibility of the boy to ask the intelligent and sensible questions, rather the girls should also keep this in mind. She should not ask sensitive questions to him. Here are some questions you should not ask to a guy when you are meeting him for the first time.

Do you plan to live separately after marriage: This is the one question which you should not ask to any guy when you are meeting him for the first time. It gives a negative impression and could be a big turn off. It might also give him indication that you don’t want to stay with his parents after marriage or will never adjust with them. So to avoid the tag of home breaker, avoid this question and if you really want to ask, mold your question in something more rational and logical way.

How much you earn?: This is another very sensitive question, however, money is important, but asking this question might offend him. Rather, you can ask some indirect questions like, “What are your future plans?” It will further help you in understanding his role and future stability in a better way. His salary is something that your parents could also enquire about. Even you might also get to know this later if you will get hooked with him.

Any past relationship or girlfriend: Just like you, your prospective partner may also have a past. But, many will like to be questioned much about it, forget sharing the details. Don’t go overboard by asking too personal and intimate questions from him about his past-life.

Are you virgin?: Hey, this is a million dollar questions and might be very important to you. But, asking this question to him in the first meeting might turn disastrous. This is not the right moment to ask such questions. Always, remember that he is not your college friend/office colleague to whom you can ask any question. He is just a stranger to you and this is really sensitive question to ask when you are meeting someone for the very first time. Similar to the girls, boys too find this question direct attack on their character. So, before asking such question, think twice and it could also lead to rejection.

Can we meet one or two more times without telling our parents: No matter, how broad-minded guys claim to be, they will never appreciate this question from a girl. Especially in an arranged marriage scenario, you tend to judge the person based on their initial behavior. There are chances that he might consider you as too fast and easy-going girl. In arranged marriage scenario, always stick to conservative ideas.

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