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Looking for more responses on matrimonial profile? Use smart tricks to send interest

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Have you already created your matrimonial profile, but not sure how to send interest and receive more responses on your interest? If you are also wondering how to express your interest on matrimonial website to get the positive response from other registered members, then you are at right place. Welcome to the bachelor’s club who are nervous, excited and confused at the same time because it is not easy to approach someone for the marriage purpose. Approaching a prospective life partner and expressing your interest is first and important step where you can’t afford to go wrong or take any risk. But, it is a nerve-wracking experience for most of the people because most of the people find it awkward. Here, we are sharing some smart and simple tips and messages to express interest on different matrimonial profiles before you take your interest to the next level with your prospective partner.

Sample interest of professional: “Hi, ABCD, I found your matrimonial profile very impressive and I strongly believe that your profile is matching my partner preferences and suitable for me. I am 30-year-old, Financial Analyst living in Gurgaon. I have recently created my profile with Lovevivah.com. I really liked the information you shared in your profile. Please review my profile and let me know if you too are interest in my profile.”

Sample interest of career oriented women: I am a 26-year-old Fashion Designer. I am based out of Mumbai and belong to an upper middle-class family. My family is based out of Kota, my father is a businessman, and runs our family business of antiques and carpets. I am looking for a life partner who is professionally settled with good family background. I am very passionate about my career and want to continue my career after marriage as well. I am looking for someone who would respect my professional aspirations and will support me in my career. I found your profile meeting my expectations. I will be delighted if you can review my profile and get back to me with positive response.

Sample interest of software engineer: “Hi Rashmi, I came across your profile at lovevivah.com and liked your profile very much. I wanted to fix a time to talk to you/your parents if you find my profile suitable and meeting your partner expectations. My brother has created my profile and most of the time manages my account too. I will be happy to answer your questions if you have any before we move forward and take the next big step.”

Sample of generic interest: I reviewed your profile and found that we have a lot of similarities and common expectations from our prospective life partner. Please review my profile and let me know if you also find my profile interesting. It would be better if we can chat or have a telephonic conversation before we move forward and take the next step. You can call me between 5PM to 7PM if you find it suitable. Else, you can also drop me a message. I look forward to hear from you.

Sample interest from boy: “Hi Parul, I checked your matrimonial profile and I am very impressed with your professional background and educational achievements. I am from a Brahmin family and belong to Banaras. Presently, my family is based out of Pune, where I am working as a Senior Manager at HCL. I love playing badminton and I am kind of workaholic. I am looking for a partner who is also passionate about her career. I found many similarities in your matrimonial profile. If you too find my matrimonial profile interesting, do send me a note/message. Best Regards.”

Sample interest by parents: Dear Madam, I checked profile of your son and I found his profile interesting. It can be a good match for my daughter. She is presently working as Sales Manager in an MNC in Bangalore. She is very thoughtful, cultured and highly educated. I am a Senior Manager at Bank of Baroda and my wife is a housewife. My elder daughter is married and settled in Germany. Please review my daughter’s profile and do get back to me.

Sample interest by sibling to parent: “Dear Sir, can you please review the profile of my brother and let me know if you find it suitable for your daughter. I am elder sister of Rohit Singh, who is presently working as Project Manager with Infosys at Bangalore. He has completed his MBA from IIM Calcutta and Masters in Business Management from University of California, USA. He an extrovert, has a modern outlook and very flexible towards things. I will be happy to share more details about our family and social background if you find my brother’s matrimonial profile matching your expectations.  

Some Smart and Coolest Ways To Say No To Any Arranged Marriage Proposal

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In our society, most of the arranged marriage meetings are driven by parents and relatives and as prospective bride and groom you hardly play any important role in the first meeting and even in the decision making. Your parents and the Jodi maker aunties and uncles ensure that all the things are lined up well and they get a yes from both the parties. In most of the cases, the boy and girl feel awkward and like a puppet in the first marriage meeting. There are numerous incidents where you have heard that how the marriage proposal or meeting turned surreal either for the boy or girl. To avoid such situation, it is best to say no to marriage proposal and save your soul. It is very natural that if you receive any marriage proposal you will not say yes to all the marriage proposals, you will surely say no to some with some or the other reasons. However, there are people who give weird reasons to reject a marriage proposal and annoy all, but to make the situation comfortable for all, say no to unwanted marriage proposal smartly.

I am not ready: Most of the marriage proposals in arranged marriage came from distant relatives, family friends and close friends. Generally, people find it difficult to handle. Girls are generally pressurized to meet the prospective groom and his family and even to accept the marriage proposal. If you too find such situation complicated and tensed, it is better to tackle it diplomatically and say No to proposal smartly. When you are meeting a girl/boy for arranged marriage, you can use these responses:

“I am flattered with your personality and positive attitude. But I am not yet ready for this big thing.”

“I need some more time to prepare myself for this big decision. I hope you will find a suitable match soon.”

I don’t find you compatible: If you don’t find the prospective life partner matching your expectations, then you should reject the proposal smartly. It is better to be more diplomatic in your approach to avoid any unwanted situation. During your conversation with the boy/girl tell about your partner preferences and expectations upfront. Tell her/him that, you do not find him/her meeting your partner preferences and you don’t find him/her compatible. Don’t hesitate to tell that compatibility with your partner is very important and it will be difficult to make a new beginning if you don’t find a compatible partner.

Saying no to online proposal: Nowadays, people register themselves with matrimonial sites, even parents create profile for their son/daughter with these matrimonial sites to find a suitable life partner, as they find it more easy and simple to find a life partner with the help of these matrimonial sites. However, on these matrimonial sites you are not supposed to please anyone, therefore you can any time reject or accept any matrimonial interest. But, if you find any proposal unsuitable and you want to reject it, then you can simple decline the interest by clicking on the available button. You can also write a short note stating, “Thanks for your interest, I reviewed your profile and find your profile not meeting my partner preference. Once again thanks for your interest and best of luck for you search.”

I want to settle down professionally: Rejection hurts and you feel sad and depressed when somebody rejects you. You feel more bad when you know that you still have a chance to meet that person and take this marriage proposal to next level. If you don’t want to give stupid reasons and make your rejection statement more convincing, you can mention that you first want to settle down professionally and then only you want to tie the wedding knot. This way you will not make any depressing and weird statement to reject someone and sound more responsible and intelligent.

Saying No after first meeting: Saying no after first meeting becomes more complicated because you don’t want to hurt anyone. Therefore, saying no after first meeting should be done with elegance, considering the other person’s emotions and expectations. Always ensure that you are conveying your message politely and diplomatically. Don’t rely upon the mediator to communicate your message, if you don’t find the other person compatible, then convey the message to your parents or to him/her directly stating that you are not the kind of person you are looking for as life partner, rather than creating confusion for the other person and his/her family.

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Do You Think That Searching A Life Partner Is Really Tough?

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Have you crossed the age of 24 years and your whole family and relatives are after your life to get married? Do you want to look for a compatible and understanding partner, but not sure about how to search for a life partner? Searching a compatible life partner for kids is a war-level task for parents and they leave no stone unturned to find the most suitable partner for their child’s marriage. They spread this news with everyone that they are looking for a partner for their kids. “Bete/beti ki shaadi karni hai, koi rishta batana.” But do you think that finding a life partner with this conventional method is that easy? The whole process of arranged marriage is so tiring, cumbersome and full of hurdles from the day one to the final marriage day. Here, we are covering some topics giving jittery nights to all parents, but how matrimonial sites have made their life easy.

Searching a partner is “Total Siyapa”. In our country marriage is all about confusion and hurdles. Finding a life partner is not easy and simple. When you start your search, you come to know that it is really tough to find someone meeting your requirements with the help of relatives, friends and middle man. Rajni Kaur, Delhi, said, “Main apne bete ki shaadi ke liye ladki dekh rahi hun, ladki search karna total siyapa hai”. According to her, it is really tough to find someone who is equally compatible. But, now she has created a profile for her son on a matrimonial site, after meeting more than 10 girls referred through personal relations. She further added, “Saying no to someone from a known family is more difficult, rather than saying no to someone you meet through matrimonial site.”

Hello ji, fix ho gayi shaadi? This is one question which haunts all parents when they start the search which all friends and family members are aware of. Whether you are attending someone’s wedding or a family function, one question which everyone around will ask is  -  “Fix ho gayi shaadi?” It is something like their son or daughter is the only one left out without marriage. So, this question haunts them like anything. But, if you register with any matrimonial site you are not supposed to give reply to such questions because you are searching the partner at your ease where rest of the world is not involved in the search process. Moreover, you are not bothered to tell them about your search.

Tough call to take: When you start the partner search then it is really tough to decide and take a call to meet someone. The first step of meeting someone is really difficult, because you don’t want to meet each and every one. It is really difficult to decide who will be the perfect partner for their kid. Kamal Kumar Saini, Aligarh, said, “Humko to shaadi ke liye milne jane main badi tension hoti hai.” He further added, “ Kisi ko na bolna acha nahi lagta, aur jis se baat karo wo hi milne ke liye bolta hai. Bada mushkil hai sab.” So, as a parent you too don’t feel good to say no to someone because you don’t want to hurt the sentiments of others. But, if you register with a matrimonial site, you can meet only those whom you want to meet. You don’t need to meet someone if you are not fully convinced. Here you have freedom to ask for photographs, more information and talk to them online. So, if you are not happy with the details you can easily say no to someone and you are not required to meet someone.

Call, call and call everyone: The only thing you are doing on weekend is either making a call to someone regarding the marriage proposal or you attending a call from others for the same. This is really difficult to be on call all the time on weekends. But, if you register with matrimonial site, you make a call to only those whom you find suitable for you. You are not required to make random calls to get the basic information.

Meet the most eligible one: If you have registered with any of the matrimonial site you are not required to meet everyone, but you can meet only those who are meeting 100% of your requirements. Here you are not forced to meet someone because he is friend of your relatives or someone known. If you search a life partner through traditional way, you are expected to meet even those whom you do not find eligible, just for the sake of some middle man involved in the process. But, the best thing with matrimonial sites is you are not forced to meet someone if you don’t wish to. Sapna Mudgal, Mumbai, said, “I am fed up of meeting people on weekends as if I am showpiece. After registering with matrimonial site, my parents don’t force me to meet everyone as we first look at the details, and then only make a call to meet someone.” She also added, “Shaadi karna jaruri hai per inta bhi nahi ke har kisi se milte raho.”

Now it is tough to find someone: “Apni biradari mein to aap ko pata hi hai kitna mushkil hai shaadi karna is age mein”. This is one sentence which you all must have heard atleast once in your life if you have gone through the process of arranged marriage. If you reject four-five proposals, then you are labeled as someone who has high demands or people will comment like, “dimag kharab hai inka, inko koi nahi milega is tarah se shaadi karne ke liye.” But, thanks to these matrimonial websites which are savior for all. You can reject as many profiles as you want, till the time you don’t find someone most suitable. Moreover, you are not required to feel bad about anything.

Caste has everything to do with marriage: In arranged marriage caste plays a significant role. Most of the people want to find a suitable match within their caste. There comes a point when you don’t find a match within your caste and you open up for a prospective groom or bride from other castes, but hesitate to share the same with others. In such situation, matrimonial site helps you to search a life partner in different castes without any hurdle. These matrimonial websites offer you unlimited suitable matches in all castes. If you start searching a partner in another community and  your family and friends get to know, the first thing you will listen from them is “Inko shaadi nahi karni, bekar ka tamasha kar rahe hai, pahle hi pasand kar rakha hoga koi bachchon ne.” So, all this makes things more complicated for parents and even for the prospective bride or groom. On the other hand, these matrimonial sites don’t require such formalities except of filling some basic information to register with them.

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Advantages of Matrimonial Site for Searching Life Partner

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Everyone who is in marriageable age wants to find a life partner just perfect and compatible for them. Generally, we heard either about arrange marriage or about love marriage. Nowadays, there are many people who are taking help of matrimonial sites to find a life partner for self or for someone in marriageable age. There are numerous matrimonial sites, which can help you in finding a perfect partner easily. Now, you need not to compromise with people and situations, rather you can find a life partner on your own terms. These sites are different from marriage bureau as these sites ask you to fill certain details on their basic registration form and you can start your search. Here, we are sharing some advantages of registering with matrimonial sites to search a life partner.

Free Registrations: Most of the matrimonial websites offer you free registration. You can create a profile for self, daughter, son, siblings or for someone else who is in marriageable age. Registration process is simple. These websites don’t charge you anything for creating a profile.

Simple and easy registration form: Registering with matrimonial website is very simple. You are just required to update your basic information like name, age, gender, phone number and email address to begin with. You are required to update some basic information to start your partner search. However, to get better search results it is always better to fill all the required information.

Quick and Refined search: These websites offer you different search modes to start your partner search. To find a suitable partner or matrimonial profile you are just required to update your partner preference and don’t forget to update maximum details to start a search. The more information you will share with them the better search results you will get. A quick search offers quick search results based on minimum information you shared with the website. To get more matching profiles it is better to fill all partner details at the time of registration. However, you can anytime change your search criteria if you are not getting the desired results.

Safe platform for partner search: Most of the website are safe to use. Whichever information you share with them, they keep all such information safe and secure. These websites don’t share your details with anyone without your knowledge. Rather, you are the one who is managing your profile, so you have all the right to share your information with other registered members. Besides, you are not even required to tell anyone that you searching a partner or with whom you are chatting with on these matrimonial websites. They are fully secured and safe place to search a life partner.

No need to compromise: Another big advantage of registering with these matrimonial websites is that you are not required to compromise with your partner requirements. You can search a partner on your own terms. If you are looking someone who is equally qualified and professionally settled, you will surely find end number of profiles matching your partner requirements. So, there is no need to compromise when it comes to searching a life partner. You are just required to devote some time to search and be clear what you are looking for.

More privacy: You are not required to worry on privacy part, when it comes to matrimonial profiles. These websites use all privacy tools to safeguard your details with other. They use different tools to secure your profile. They never share any information without your permission. Besides, if you are sending any interest to other registered member they will safeguard that information too.

Endless choices: The best thing with these websites is that they offer you endless options. They will offer you endless profiles of other registered members meeting your partner search criteria. They will provide you numerous matrimonial profiles meeting your requirements.

Affordability: These websites are more affordable when it comes to membership. These websites offer you various affordable membership plans meeting your requirements. You can anytime purchase a membership plan to speed-up your search. As these packages are highly affordable and as low as Rs. 1000 or less than that.

Open platform: This is open platform. Anyone can register with these websites irrespective of their caste, community, religion or occupation. These websites invite registration of all members who are in marriageable age. So, don’t hesitate to register with any of these websites if you are looking for a perfect partner.

Customized services on request: To make your search journey easy and simple you can any time opt for paid personalized services. You can buy a personalized service which might offer you better search results, more refined matches and you can view contact details of other members. Besides, these websites also assign a service advisor/manager who manages your account and contact other registered members meeting your requirements on behalf of you. They also share your details with them and even fix meeting as well.

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Is Your Matrimonial Profile Photo Friendly? Maximize Your Profile & Get Hitched

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Are you maximizing your profile to receive good responses and better matches on your profile? To receive best responses, it is always good that you maximize your profile. These matrimonial sites have developed these forms in a way to give your profile full exposure and advantages. But, after creating your profile and filling matrimonial sample description, you are still not receiving good interest, there must be something missing in your matrimonial profile. A winning matrimonial profile must have all the important ingredients in it. It should have a perfect balance of information, sample description and your images. You should never ignore this part. A perfect photo on matrimonial profile can help in receiving more interest on your matrimonial profile. But, you need to pay a little attention while updating your photos to get more response. A perfect photo is better than adding 10 wrong images on your matrimonial profile. Here we are sharing some tips with you to maximize the benefits of your matrimonial profile.

Update latest photo:  This is the basic and most important rule. Update your latest photograph on your matrimonial profile. It will attract more registered members. It will give them a sense of your personality and how you look. A latest photograph is the right choice for your matrimonial profile. Always ensure that your photograph is recent, just one or two month old not more than that.

Don’t add group photo: There are many people who update their group photos on their matrimonial profile. It is not going to do any good to you if you have updated all group photos. How the other person will identify you? Even most of the group photos are taken from some desired distance to capture the whole group. Therefore, it will not give them a clear picture about your facial appearance.

Don’t add side poses only: If you are among those a few peoples who believe that they look good only in their side poses, then this is not going to do any good to your matrimonial profile. Most of the people want to see the full front images, rather than side poses. Adding one or two side poses is fine, but get rid of adding all side poses on your matrimonial profile.

Don’t add childhood images: If you are also obsessed with your childhood memories and your happy go lucky images, then this not the right place to get that remarks “how cute he is?”. Don’t update your childhood images on matrimonial profile. Nobody will be able to identify your present personality if you will update your childhood images. Moreover, you are losing the opportunity and important space available to flaunt your personality. Maximize the space by updating right kind of images on your matrimonial profile.

Don’t update photo with goggles: Are you the one who never takes of your goggle if you are out? If you love to flaunt your stylish and trendy goggles all the time, then resist this temptation. It is better to update your recent images without any props. A goggle might play the role of hindrance for other to judge your overall facial expression and looks. It is better to update images without goggles. If you wear specs then it’s fine to update images with specs, but stylish goggle is total no-no for your matrimonial profile.

Don’t update similar photos: Do you love to get yourself clicked number of times in different poses on the same day? Avoid updating such images on your matrimonial profile. It is better to update images of different occasions, places and celebrations. If you have clicked ten good images on a day, then be more selective about updating these images. Select one or two best images to update on your profile.

No add blur/dark images: At times, we don’t pay much attention to the picture quality of the image. If you think that a particular image is blur, don’t update such photo. If there is no proper light in a particular photograph or photo is dark, don’t update such photo in your matrimonial profile. Always ensure that whichever image you update must have good quality and proper light so that people can view your image properly.

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