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Is Your Matrimonial Profile Photo Friendly? Maximize Your Profile & Get Hitched

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Are you maximizing your profile to receive good responses and better matches on your profile? To receive best responses, it is always good that you maximize your profile. These matrimonial sites have developed these forms in a way to give your profile full exposure and advantages. But, after creating your profile and filling matrimonial sample description, you are still not receiving good interest, there must be something missing in your matrimonial profile. A winning matrimonial profile must have all the important ingredients in it. It should have a perfect balance of information, sample description and your images. You should never ignore this part. A perfect photo on matrimonial profile can help in receiving more interest on your matrimonial profile. But, you need to pay a little attention while updating your photos to get more response. A perfect photo is better than adding 10 wrong images on your matrimonial profile. Here we are sharing some tips with you to maximize the benefits of your matrimonial profile.

Update latest photo:  This is the basic and most important rule. Update your latest photograph on your matrimonial profile. It will attract more registered members. It will give them a sense of your personality and how you look. A latest photograph is the right choice for your matrimonial profile. Always ensure that your photograph is recent, just one or two month old not more than that.

Don’t add group photo: There are many people who update their group photos on their matrimonial profile. It is not going to do any good to you if you have updated all group photos. How the other person will identify you? Even most of the group photos are taken from some desired distance to capture the whole group. Therefore, it will not give them a clear picture about your facial appearance.

Don’t add side poses only: If you are among those a few peoples who believe that they look good only in their side poses, then this is not going to do any good to your matrimonial profile. Most of the people want to see the full front images, rather than side poses. Adding one or two side poses is fine, but get rid of adding all side poses on your matrimonial profile.

Don’t add childhood images: If you are also obsessed with your childhood memories and your happy go lucky images, then this not the right place to get that remarks “how cute he is?”. Don’t update your childhood images on matrimonial profile. Nobody will be able to identify your present personality if you will update your childhood images. Moreover, you are losing the opportunity and important space available to flaunt your personality. Maximize the space by updating right kind of images on your matrimonial profile.

Don’t update photo with goggles: Are you the one who never takes of your goggle if you are out? If you love to flaunt your stylish and trendy goggles all the time, then resist this temptation. It is better to update your recent images without any props. A goggle might play the role of hindrance for other to judge your overall facial expression and looks. It is better to update images without goggles. If you wear specs then it’s fine to update images with specs, but stylish goggle is total no-no for your matrimonial profile.

Don’t update similar photos: Do you love to get yourself clicked number of times in different poses on the same day? Avoid updating such images on your matrimonial profile. It is better to update images of different occasions, places and celebrations. If you have clicked ten good images on a day, then be more selective about updating these images. Select one or two best images to update on your profile.

No add blur/dark images: At times, we don’t pay much attention to the picture quality of the image. If you think that a particular image is blur, don’t update such photo. If there is no proper light in a particular photograph or photo is dark, don’t update such photo in your matrimonial profile. Always ensure that whichever image you update must have good quality and proper light so that people can view your image properly.

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7 Things to Avoid While Chatting with Someone on Matrimonial Site

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Chat is one of the most convenient and easy way to share your thoughts and feeling when you are online. These days’ matrimonial websites also offer this feature to their registered member. This feature makes your search journey easy and simple. You can share your thoughts, ideas and views with other members to know him/her better before taking the next step. But, this could also play a negative role if you don’t know how to maximize the benefits of this useful tool. If you are also among those people who have registered with any matrimonial site, but not very sure what you should discuss and what you should not discuss while chatting on matrimonial site. Here, to make your journey simpler and hassle free we are here sharing some things and topics to avoid while chatting with someone.

Don’t get too personal: While chatting with someone on matrimonial site always remember not to get too personal with him/her. No matter how much you liked him/her or no matter how close you feel while chatting with him/her, still avoid getting personal. Giving some special name to him/her in your initial chat might be counted as negative as the other person might count you kiddish or too fast. So, be cautious while getting personal with him/her on matrimonial site. Chatting with someone on matrimonial site is more serious as compared to dating site as you consider the other person as your prospective partner. You can’t take this thing too casually.

Don’t discuss things about your ex: It is important that you should always be loyal to your partner, but in the initial phase it is important to understand the other person first and then only share something important and personal with him or her. It is important to keep things clear and transparent, but this stage comes only when you have a level of trust with your partner. In the initial time, it is not easy and simple to figure out how the other person will react on this disclosure. Sharing such things personally is far better than discussing and sharing on chat.

Never compare things: While chatting with someone on matrimonial site don’t compare him/her with your friends/ex/or someone else. It might hurt his/her sentiments and feeling. No two people are same and they can’t behave same in all situations. Therefore, comparing someone with someone else is not the right approach. This way you will miss exploring and understanding him/her better. It will further increase your stress and anxiety because there is no point of comparison. It might be he/she is not too good in expressing thing online or while chatting with someone. So, always keep this in mind that meeting and sharing things personally is far different from doing this online.

Don’t flaunt too much: It might be you are too good looking, smart, intelligent and the best in your professional field, but there is no point of flaunting this thing too much. Nobody wants to marry someone who is self-obsessed and only thinks about self. Therefore, always keep this in mind that telling something about you is different and being self-obsessed and flaunting too much about self is different. It might irked the other person and encourage him/her to avoid chatting with you.

Avoid sharing too much information: This is another thing, which you should avoid while chatting someone on matrimonial website. It is good to understand someone first, once you develop a good level of understanding, and then only start sharing information. Avoid sharing too much of information because it might be the same can be used against you in the future.

Avoid using abbreviations: To sound cool and updated, it is not necessary to use different abbreviations and jargons. There are many parents who handle the accounts for their kids, so in that case if you will chat in your whatsapp and chatting language, it might be the other person will not understand what you want to say. It might be even he/she will find it difficult to understand your point. It is always better to use simple words to make your chatting sessions more fruitful and meaningful.

Don’t be rigid with your approach: When you chat with someone avoid being rigid in your approach. There are times when you don’t agree with other’s point and when you think that you are right, but in such situations avoid being rigid with your thoughts. Be flexible and good listener. There is no harm in listening someone and knowing their point. It might be you don’t agree, but you give him/her an impression that you are open with thoughts and ideas and always ready to listen other’s view point. This also shows you respect and maturity.

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Be Selective, Don’t Accept All Interest on Your Matrimonial Profile

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Once you attain a certain age in our country or we call it marriageable age, then your whole family and whole world around you is bothered about your marriage. All your relatives, friends and family members keep on asking about when you will marry. One of my friends Rakshita, told me that she has recently created a profile on matrimonial site. She was very happy after creating the profile because now she is not required to meet everyone. She is also feeling happy because she is receiving a lot of interest on her matrimonial profile. But, she shared her experience and told me that she is very selective in her approach and doesn’t accept all invitations. She mentioned that she is taking all steps to stay safe on matrimonial site. She also shared how she is managing her profile to get the maximum out of her registered profile. I am here sharing some of the tips shared by her to manage the matrimonial profile and managing the interest received on the profile.

Check the profile: Always check the profile before you accept any interest or invitation from other registered member. Don’t accept any invitation just for the sake of it. It is not a dating or social networking site where every interest/invitation is important and you must accept all to increase the number. No, this is not the case of matrimonial profile. Before accepting any profiles always check it.

Read all details carefully: When you receive any interest from any of the registered member, before accepting or deleting the request read all the details carefully. Read the profile thoroughly, don’t just overlook the profile or see through the photographs only. Read every mentioned detail carefully.

Family status/background: This is something very important which you should never overlook when you receive any interest. Always check the family details. Try to find out more details about his/her parents, sibling, location and other important details. It will give you a glimpse of his financial and social status which is an important thing to consider before marriage life.

Check education as priority: Most of the people don’t mention all important details while registering with matrimonial sites. Education is one such thing which you should not ignore or overlook before accepting the interest in your profile. Nowadays, all of us look for a partner who is highly educated and settled. If you too have certain criteria about education, then check this as your priority.

Find out about common interest: This will help in checking the compatibility quotient of you two. While going through his/her profile try to find out the common interest or hobbies. It will help in understanding his/her lifestyle, interest, personality and social life. Compatibility is very important for this relationship and a lot of things based upon it after marriage. However, there is no surety that the common interest will result in yes for the marriage, but it is important to create a common platform to begin with.

Think about your priorities: Before accepting any profile interest, think about your priorities and interest. It is important that you make a check list of your priorities. What are you looking for in your life partner? What are your priorities of life? Do you want a professional or you are looking for someone really beautiful/handsome or something else. Make a checklist of your priorities and select or reject a profile based on that. It will make your partner search simple and easy. You will not waste time in meeting the wrong people.

Find out the seriousness: While going through the profile always check the seriousness of the profile. Read all the mentioned details, description about self, parents and other things. It will give a sense about seriousness of that person. It will also make you understand the genuineness of the profile.

See all photographs: Before selecting or rejecting any matrimonial interest, always check the photographs. Try to find out whether the photographs are original or crafted. It will also help in understanding the personality and lifestyle of the person. Also check is he/she looking of same age in the photographs that is mentioned in the profile details.

Know more about partner preference: Once you receive any partner interest on your profile read more about the partner preferences. It is important that you should be accepting the one who is meeting your partner preference or you are fitting into his/her partner preference. It will increase the chances of positive response. If you are not meeting his/her partner preference or he/she has sent you interest after viewing your photograph or educational details or something else. Find out such points and make your decision accordingly.

Consider the age: This is another important decision making factor. Always check the age of the profile before accepting the interest on your matrimonial profile. If he/she is too young or in the age of 22-23, there are chances that he/she has registered for the sake of registering not for marriage. Another thing to consider is how older or younger he/she to you. If the age gap is higher, there are chances of further complications. So, think about the prospects before accepting any matrimonial profile.

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7 Things to Avoid on Matrimonial Sites Before Going on First Meeting

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Nowadays, matrimonial sites have replaced the aunties and uncles who used to play the role of marriage maker or mediator between the two families. These matrimonial websites are simple to use.  Anyone can easily create their matrimonial profile and search a partner. But, the main concern of all registered members of these websites is to find the genuine and authentic profile. When you find a matrimonial profile matching your partner preference criteria, the first thing you do is to contact that person. But, there are a few things you should keep in mind before fixing your first meeting with that prospective partner.

  1. Verify the profile: Once you receive an interest on your profile from a registered member, always verify the profile. It is very important for your own safety and security. Before accepting any matrimonial interest, you should always verify the profile details. Check whether the details mentioned in the matrimonial profile are true or not.
  2. Check the genuineness: This is another big thing, which you should keep in mind while accepting any interest request. Always check the genuineness of the profile. Try to find out whether all the details mentioned on the profile like contact details, address, permanent address, email id and social medial details are true and genuine. If the website has some verification tool, use that tool. matrimonial-sites-meeting-3
  3. Check the authenticity of photographs: A matrimonial profile with photograph receive more interest as compared to a matrimonial profile without photographs. Most of the people update their photographs on these sites with their family, friends, vacation, office and other. But, it is important that you check the authenticity of these photographs. Try to find out whether these photographs are genuine or edited by some other tool to beautify. Also find out whether these photographs are recent or older. It will also give you a sense about the genuineness of the profile.matrimonial-sites-meeting-5
  4. Visit social media profiles: Most of the people are very active on different social media websites. While checking any matrimonial profile, visit the social media profiles of that person. Don’t forget to visit the Facebook, twitter, linkedIn and other social media profiles. It will help in understanding his/her activities, interest and kind of person he/she is at personal level.
  5. Are you meeting the whole criteria: You must have visited his/her profile before accepting the matrimonial interest? It is always good if you read the partner preference well in advance. Try to analyze whether you are meeting his/her partner preference and vice-versa.  Don’t accept the meeting invitation because he/she looks good or financially well-off. Always pay attention to your choice and expectations from your future partner. A small hasty decision can create a lot of problem for you in the future. So, be specific with your preferences. Meet only those who are meeting at least 80%-90% of your partner preferences.matrimonial-sites-meeting-1
  6. Don’t get too personal before meeting: If you have done all the verification part and you are satisfied with his/her details, then you can take the next step. If you find that person genuine and reliable, then there is no harm in chatting with that person. But, always be smart in your conversation. Don’t just get swayed away with emotions and share too much personal things and information with him/her. This thing you should avoid in your initial conversations. Sharing your personal details can be used negatively and can be manipulated in long run. Therefore, to avoid any issue in future, just pay attention to your words and share only required information.matrimonial-sites-meeting-2
  7. Don’t meet until you are not confident: Whether you are chatting with him/her from last two weeks or two months, don’t jump into meeting decision too soon. Unless or until you are not fully sure don’t agree for the meeting. There are many people who just say yes to meet everyone without even analyzing their profile. They even hardly bother to check the authenticity of the profile and just say yes for the meeting. But, this is not the right approach. These websites offer you unlimited features and services, use them to the maximum and stay safe. Even if you decided to meet that person, don’t go alone. Tell about this meeting to your parents or ask your parent or sibling to accompany you to the meeting place to avoid any unwanted situation.

 

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Maximize Your Partner Search On Matrimonial Site, Use These Simple Tricks

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While registering with matrimonial sites your main objective is always to find a perfect life partner. These matrimonial sites are very much in trend and nowadays youth is more inclined towards these matrimonial websites because of their features, simple and easy registration process. These websites offer you profiles of brides and groom of almost all religions and castes. You can search a profile based on your partner preference. But, many people find it difficult and complex to find a partner on these sites. These sites are really helpful in finding the compatible partner if you maximize your partner search. Here, we are sharing some tips to optimize your matrimonial profile.

Use filters: While creating the profile you must have noticed that these websites have different filters. You can use these filters to search the partner according to your preferences. These filters are perfect for specifying your search criteria and getting the best search results meeting your partner search.

Be specific: At the time of filling the information, be specific about your requirements. Don’t write and mention things for the sake of writing it. Your specific information and details will help in finding the perfect partner.

Fill more information: It is always recommended to fill right and accurate information. All these websites have different fields that every member is supposed to fill. You are required to fill information about self, family, educational details, professional details, your interest and partner preferences. Don’t put minimum information as it might appear to the other person that either you are hiding things or you are not serious. Even with minimum information there are chances that you will get lesser interest.

Don’t send invite to everyone: As sending invitation is a good feature to connect with other registered members. But, don’t over use it by sending invitation to every member, who is even meeting the basic details like desired age or education. This way you will waste your time and increase your frustration.

Select only you think have potential: While viewing the contact or selecting someone, you should always first see the whole profile and check details. Compare these details with your requirements and if it is meeting your requirements, then only view the contact details as in most of the sites you can view the contact details only if you are a paid member.

Don’t narrow your search: Always remain open-minded and don’t narrow down your search. It is always better if you fill more details in your partner preference and be open with different things. For instance, if you have mentioned in your search that you are looking for bride extremely fair, only 5’7 tall, MBA/Engineer, from Aggarwal community. There are chances with such narrow criteria you will find very limited matches. But, if you go for wider search criteria it will help in getting the better search results.

Be a paid member: If you are not able to find the match or you don’t have that much of time to devote on these matrimonial sites you can become a paid member. You can anytime avail their paid membership as these memberships offer you plenty of benefits. Some membership plans also offer you special assistance like these websites assign their executives to handle all the search and communication on your behalf. He/she manages your matrimonial profile and sends all communication on your behalf. These plans are more helpful as they boost your search and you get more refined results.

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