Yearly Archives: 2014

Family Relations After Marriage

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“The love of family and the admiration of friends are much more important than wealth and privilege.”  –Charles Kuralt

What exactly is the meaning of Family? The true meaning of family lies where there is love, trust, communication, sharing, understanding, freedom of speech, caring, sharing. A true and a happyfamily is one that embodies these values and practices them in their everyday lives. But in today’s society, things have changed. These habits and qualitieshave disappeared from our families. Some bad habits have been adopted that have completely misled our attitude towards the members of our family. n

There are many factors that are to be blamed here. One of the main reasons for such formality among families and family members is the lack of appreciation and the emotional contact. It is these qualities only that brings family members together and forms a bond of personal touch and provides the family emotional support to each its member.The problem arises when this quality disappears from the families. What happens is the need for such support does not go away but the member seeks to external society to fulfill this support that he or she requires. It leaves the person mentally much more vulnerable and he or she feels much more broken down and lonely in life.

The second most important reason is the over desire of the family for financial growth or simply put, want of more and more money. In this the entire family indulges deeply in trying to make more money and in this process leaves all the family values behind for gaining worldly possessions. Here, making more money is not the problem but surely, lack of family unity is!

In trying to bring the families back together, one must keep certain things in mind. The first and foremost is the presence of trust and honesty among each other. Secondly, constantly staying in touch with the family in terms of contributing to family problems, and generally talking about family discussions about important matters and talking about future planning is a very good way to go ahead.  And last but not the least, make sure to provide ample amount of love to the person whom who swore and agreed to stay with the rest of your life, for that is the main reason why two of you are together. Do not talk about each other’s failures but embrace each and every other quality with happiness.

Talking in overall, maintaining familyrelationship is a huge responsibility that must be undertaken with great respect and honor. And it is not only the responsibility of the oldest member in the family to take care of these qualities but rather each individual’s responsibility to make sure that a peaceful harmony is maintained within their families. As long as each member plays his part perfectly, nothing can stand between your family and happiness.

Ideal Life Partner @Lovevivah.com

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From the very beginning of anyone’s existence we all seek our own perfect life partner who will love us, understand us and stand right beside us in all our happy and sad moments. A true life partner is one who not only fulfills all the above qualities but goes the extra mile to bring about the happiness and jubilation in an environment that is much desired by their spouse.

 

Nowadays, major concern that rests within our entire society and community is how to find that perfect life partner.Finding your own life partner is a huge a huge responsibility, as it is not just a matter of a day but an entire lifetime that one has to spend with the other and making sure that the partner is right is crucial or else living that life becomes really hard and one is left with not much option but helplessness. Marriage also decides the destiny of not only the people who got married but all those who are closely related to them as welfare concerns arise. That is in order to avoid any sort of tragedies, a person has to be very careful while choosing a life partner; lot of factors needs to be judged. The most important thing to remember is that no matter how perfect your “Ideal” life partner may be, we are normal human beings and we all have both good and bad qualities as opposed to what the society poses for us as a perfect man or woman.

 

Each one of us has different standards, idea and confidence. So the first thing men/women should be concerned about while choosing their life partner is the existence of the element of truth between each other. Both the partners need someone who can tell the truth about their entire lifetimes because when choosing an ideal partner, honesty must be a top priority. An ideal life partner should also share some of the other person’s interests whether it is socializing or meeting people. Similarly qualities like outgoing and friendly if shared can greatly add value to the relationship.And lastly he or she must be supportive in any way that is required by their spouse. Whether it is a major life decision or any kind of judgment or choice that one must make, support and advice can go long way in life and also boosts confidence in the other person.

 

So, as long as you can see or find such qualities in your ideal partner there is no other quality or aspect that needs to be judged whether it is financial status or how one looks, For it won’t be looks that will help you make your life decision but support and cosmopolitanism that will. Please get registered on Lovevivah.com for perfect life partner!

Tips To Finding Your Soul-mate

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It is every girl’s and boy’s dream to find their soul mate who will love them, understand them and most importantly be their best fried for their entire lifetime. For some people it just purely fate that brings them their perfect lover together but for some people it does not come that easy. Every individual in this world is different and has completely different expectations of how they imagine their perfect life partner to be but some general tips that should work for everyone can help a lot and go a long way ahead in life.

The most important thing is to keep in mind that when you are trying to find your perfect love partner, you must keep an open mind and not judge anybody based on any kind of prejudices whether they are social or based on caste, color or anything like that. Also make sure that whenever you interact with the person, be open for you do not want to start a relationship based on false images of one another and then regret making any serious life decision. The other way he/she expresses himself/herself the most is through their body language. Body language can signify so many things about a person. Body language can radiate one’s confidence, one’s attitude and one’s demeanor. Your own composure should still remain intact. Remember to express yourself gracefully and elegantly.

Each human is like an onion, with many layers within. So it is best to come to know of a person from their core and for that to happen, a lot of time must be spent with the other person. Do not judge anyone on first sight or first meeting, for it is very hard to completely open up in front of someone on the first meeting. Understand how he or she expresses himself. Everyone can boast about their qualities but a true and an honest person is one who also talks about his flaws and is continuously trying to rectify them. Because we know that no one is perfect, if he or she talks about their laws, it tells you how open they are.

Judging one on a dinner table is not the way to go. For complete understanding, both the partners must spend time indulging in mutually liked activities. Try an understand each other’s perspectives, each other’s life circumstances for every man or woman walk a different path of life from one another.A true lifelongpartner is one who understands everything about you. Share your passions and see how the reaction. Share your lifelong goals and ambitions and see how supportive the other person is. Also remember, don’t be stuck in a particular way of thinking. Be open and ever ready to change your mind about general things and ways of life.

It is very important that you have understood the other person really well inside out and are ready to accept him or her for you might just end up spending your entire life with them as your soul mate.

How To Have The Wedding Of Your Dreams

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Wedding is not just a place where a man and a woman come together to spend their life thereafter but a spiritual ceremony where two souls that love each other bind as one for all eternity. It is the event of celebrations, of happiness and also an emotional event for the bride shall leave her home and live with the new. Even though the weddings are said to take place in heaven, what makes these weddings most beautiful is the ambiance and the location in which they are set, the perfect wedding destination. The wedding venue is what gives an Indian wedding its sanctity and holiness. It is very important that these venues must be chosen carefully.

Though it is very important that the venue that is selected is first and foremost is liked and the bride and groom are comfortable with, there are many other factors that come into play. Second most important thing is the budget of the family responsible for organizing the wedding. Staying within and setting up a budget is very important as going overboard with the money can bring about a burden which beats the entire purpose of a wedding. Not only just the quality of the venue but also choosing a central location that is accessible to all easily is just as important. Sometimes having a huge gathering in a wedding doesn’t go that well as one of the main purposes for a wedding is for the entire family and friends to get together and wish the newlywed but what happens in a huge gathering is that the families are not even able to meet all their guests. It is highly recommended that a smaller gathering with very close families and friends come to attend so that a more compact and more enjoyable wedding takes place.
Location wise some people imagine their wedding to be on a beach, some may think of a 5-star hotel or some may want to get married in a temple. It all comes down to a personal preference for the Perfect wedding location is the one where you want it to be. Whatever may your perfect wedding destination be, make sure to visit the location once to see for yourself if it fits with the kind you want for it is ultimately your decision and not your guest’s. As for the decorations, the wedding ceremonies are most appreciated when they have a unique style which comes from the uniqueness of ones ideas and not from someone else. All though it comes to personal choice and taste, decorations must be preferably kept simple, elegant, sophisticated and well designed. Another great aspect to add to one’s wedding is a small water body or a fountain, for the sound of the splashing water brings utmost calm and peace which is much respected and valued by the guests. Bring out the imaginative in you and create your own perfect little wedding.

Remember your perfect wedding is your own creation, fill it with joy and express your jubilation through the ambiance, make it the day you remember for your entire life, for you only marry once in your lifetime.

BRIDAL COLLECTION FOR INDIAN MARRIAGE CEREMONY

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In Indian weddings, a bride’s sanctity and holiness is compared to the purest of the forms. It is of such magnitude that her pureness is compared to that of a goddess. A bride and her beauty, through the majesty of her clothes spellbind all who lay their eyes upon her. What completes the beauty of the bride are the captivating accessories and a gorgeous wedding gown called “Lehenga”, whose beauty is so enchanting that it seems to be woven out of angel’s own hands. It is these bridal collections that every girl dreams of wearing on her wedding-day and is excited about her whole life.

These bridal assortments stay unique to each bride following her tastes, her choices and her fashion sense but what must be kept in mind are the three points before buying a Lehenga or its accompanying accessories. First and foremost is that Indian weddings require the bride to wear heavy and exotic dresses that are sometimes so exclusive that the brides who spent lakhs of rupees on that dress end up wearing it only once throughout their lives. So it is recommended that minimalist approach is applied while keeping with the required wedding norms of India.
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Secondly, a wedding is a time of togetherness where families come together to spend time but some people indulge themselves so much in shopping that all their time that was to enjoy has been wasted in roaming around the city trying to find the “Perfect Lehenga”. And last but not the least, the number of choices and options available can be so overwhelming sometimes so it is best to first survey and decide which stores fall in your budget and which ones have the kind of dresses you want to buy. It not only saves more time but lets the true spirit of wedding remain. In my opinion the wedding-day is the day when the bride experiences the best day of her life and it is nothing but unfair for her to carry around such “heavy work” dresses that she feels uncomfortable in. These days, new approach is being adopted. People have begun to go for lighter and more elegant dresses which are highly appreciated and even commended.

It would be perfectly right to say that it is in everyone’s best interest to not only enjoy the two families coming together and bonding in one relation through their son’s or daughter’s marriage but also adore and treasure the happy memories of this event where they spent time with their families and friends and wished the newlywed couple best wishes for their lives.

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